- 1 year ago
- Wedding: July 2019
So my dad passed on last Friday on the 10th. I haven’t seem him for 2-3 months and the day he was suppose to return home, he passed on. A little background, my dad has a farm and he goes there most of the time, he hasn’t returned for awhile cos his trees bore fruits and it was the season and he wanted to make sure he was there to collect the riped fruits.
He was returning back to meet my future-in-laws for the first time, and instead of a happy occassion it ended up where my future in laws met him through his coffin mirror 🙁
Although he has spent quite a lot of time in the farm, he would always be there for special occasions – birthdays, family dinners, weddings etc. Part of me still feels like he’s just in the farm right now and he would return back later on – obviously I’m still in a denial phase but my trouble is my wedding is in 10 months and I believe it would hit me even more cos he was suppose to walk me down the aisle.
I know he’s gone and I’m really trying to deal with it but it isn’t as easy as it sounds.
My real question is… How do I have my dad part of the wedding? I was thinking to take something of his and maybe wrap it around my boutique and it would sort of a symbol of him walking me down the aisle too.
And who should walk you down now that my dad isn’t around? My mother and brother is around.
P.S. My mother wants me to go on with the wedding.