(Closed) If a friend told you she wanted to wear this dress to your wedding…

posted 7 years ago in Etiquette
  • poll: Tell her not to come? (PHOTO ADDED, you'll need to scroll down)
    Yes, its too scandelous - if she just cant pick another dress she can stay home : (198 votes)
    68 %
    No, youre being a bridezilla let her come : (69 votes)
    24 %
    Other, please state : (25 votes)
    9 %
  • Post # 3
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: April 2011

    I don’t see a pic…

    Post # 4
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: February 2011

    Post a pic of the dress!

    Post # 5
    Member
    2790 posts
    Sugar bee

    I don’t see it either.

    Post # 6
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    647 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2011

    I wouldn’t give into the drama, just say whatever and move on!  Not worth getting excited about in my opinion!

    Edit: I don’t see the dress pic either, but that’s my opinion no matter what the dress looks like.  It sounds like she’s just trying to get attention/be dramatic.

    Post # 7
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: August 2011

    There’s no pic, but in general, I think you should just let it go. Life is too short to get involved in meaningless drama.

    Edit after pic posted: It’s inappropriate, but in then end only she will look silly in it, so who cares?!? Don’t play into the drama.

    Post # 10
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    1140 posts
    Bumble bee

    Ther is no picture, BUT sounds like DRAMA and I wouldn’t feed into her games. 

    Post # 11
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    1140 posts
    Bumble bee

    ok haha I see the picture now…EWWW, she will only be making a fool out of herself…looks like a loosy goosey! 

    Post # 12
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    Wow that is some dress. Depending on how good of a “friend” it was. I would probably say “hell no”. I couldnt imagine my grandmas face if someone showed up to my wedding in that dress.

    Post # 13
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    Woah nelly!! That is a very sexy dress!!! Well, we had a guest trying to wear a light silver ball gown…I had a mutual friend urge her not to… it worked 😀

    Post # 14
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    1087 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: December 2012

    ummmmmm yeah…… she really wants to look like that?

     

    Post # 15
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    Blushing bee

    Sounds like she wants to steal your spotlight. Thats begging for attention.. I’d tell her not to come if she is gonna wear that haha. Don’t want anyone dressed like hoochies at my wedding!

    Post # 16
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: February 2011

    I dont know…I find it odd that she’s asking permission/telling you about the dress she plans to wear.  I’ve never run my wedding outfit choices by the bride before attending a wedding.  It definitely sounds like she’s just trying to start drama.  I’d try to play it cool and maybe she’ll back down.  If not, no biggie….I’d think your other guests would react appropriately and think she looks trashy, anyways.

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