Post # 1
Ladies of the Hive,
If your SO, love of your life, hunny, sweet sugar darling- asked for your hand in marriage today *spontaneous and all* would you be shocked? And would you say yes”?
I would be extremely HAPPY, SHOCKED, AND SAY YES ALL AT THE SAME TIME!!!! I WOULD MOST DEFINITELY say YES, YES, YES, Yes!!!!!!!
Post # 3
Of course! He finally worked up the cajones to do it, I’m not going to shut him down!
Post # 5
Of course! I would question someone involved in a site called weddingbee if their answer would be anything else.
Post # 8
I would be in complete shock, I’d probably scream Yes! and then run around calling people like a crazy person lol
Post # 11
I know he won’t, but if he did I’d of course say yes 🙂
Post # 12
No I wouldn’t say yes…
I would say OMFG ARE YOU FUCKING SERIOUS!!! SHUT THE FUCK UP?! NO FUCKING WAY YOU ARE MESSING WITH ME? OF FUCKING COURSE I WILL MARRY YOU!! BUT OMG ARE YOU SURE YOUR SERIOUS BECAUSE I DON’T BELIEVE YOU! AHHHHHHHHHHH
Post # 13
hell to the fuck yeah 🙂 We went to see Bridesmaids tonight (totally unlike him to see anything like that but he actually loved it). I always sneak my milkduds, which he hates, into his popcorn, which he hates. Well during the movie he acted like he put somethin in my milkduds then made a funny face. Heart jumped like it does all the time like *ring* and of course it wasn’t…. Because I’m always on edge, anticipating 🙂 at least I got him to go to a wedding movie and he liked it? That’s a start…
Post # 14
LOL – that was hilarious! My response would be something along those lines also! hahaha
Post # 15
After 4 years of dating, 2 of which have been active waiting, I may not believe him when he finally does it. Sometimes he even pretends to ask me to marry him. He’s so cruel 🙂
Post # 16
I would have to say no. We had a discussion earlier today in which I mentioned I am not sure we have made progress in our relationship since a year ago (September will be 3 years since we met and started dating immediately). He has Asperger’s syndrome and it makes it difficult to have a relationship. Apart from the aspie trait of not being able to maintain eye contact, he has problems expressing himself verbally. He has never told me I was pretty, although I believe he thinks so. The summer months are upon us and that means visits from and to his various siblings and parents. I’ve spent time with these people for years and now still feel uncomfortable around them. None of the females (his mother and two sisters) have ever asked me how our relationship is or what our plans are…I find that weird. My family would always ask questions like that. All of my parental figures have passed years ago, so I am left to deal with his family while he doesn’t have much of my family to deal with at all. I did not go with him for 4th of July with his family last year because he had offered to propose on July 3, then withdrew the offer about a week beforehand. I am actually embarrassed to keep seeing his family with no ring on my finger and no wedding in the plans. I do realize we are not ready to get married but I just wish it were different. Thanks for listening!