Post # 31
I think we jump to conclusions very easily when we’re upset- and say things that hold little value. I know my Mr. Man doesn’t take me seriously when I flip out, but that doesn’t excuse the hurtful things that I’ve said. I don’t want to be a guilty bride, so dropping the guilt tripping, begging, anger and pessimism is my best shot at sanity- and the proposal I dream of!
Post # 32
just checking back- the weekend is over, so how was the vacation?
Post # 33
@hellopurple: “either a) he will propose, and you will feel like he didnt want to and was forced into it, and he’ll feel that way too, but he just didnt want to lose you OR b) he won’t propose and you won’t leave and he’ll see that you don’t stick to your ultamatims, making it hard for him to take you seriously about it in the future.”