- 10 years ago
- Wedding: November 2009
A flippin’ miracle!!!
First, a vendor I NEVER signed a contract with suddenly emails me and is trying to hold me to their contract – um, what?!?! I never signed it! Then they start sending me the emails we exchanged, and I finally shut them up by sending them one showing that I DID tell them I wasn’t signing and they couldn’t hold me to it, but only after I pulled the “I work for attorney’s card”!!
My mom calls and says I need to start thinking about who she can ride to the wedding with. Not from her house, from my house. She wants to leave her car at my house, since it’s closer to the venue. She’s never even been to the venue. And I am not responsible for finding her a ride!! Why can’t she drive herself?!? And I don’t want her at my house after the wedding!! Grrrr…
Two friends suddenly can’t make it to the wedding… And my sister STILL hasn’t confirmed if she is coming. Make it three friends. Damn.
Another friend that I was VERY close to emailed me today. I say ‘was close to’ because when invites were going out, I sent her an email at work, at her personal email, and via facebook, plus posted my request on her wall, and sent her a text (not all at once, just after I kept not hearing from her). She totally ignored me. Today, a few days before the wedding, she emails me and says sorry – she’s been without a phone and really stressed. What? But she’s still been on facebook, because she keeps updating status messages. She’s been one of my best friends for almost 20 years. She said they were broke. I saw on her and her FI’s facebook pages that they’re planning a ski trip in November. Gaaaaaaaaah!!!!!!!!!!!!!
This guy at work just comes up and starts barking orders at me to copy things for him. Yep, I have a vagina – it must be MY JOB to copy things, Mr. Broken Fingers.
A friend offered to make a poster for us (our venue is a theater) and after ignoring us for two weeks, finally sent the proof last night. We didn’t like it, so asked for changes but were told that it would be friday night before we could get it back! The wedding is Saturday!! So this morning, I contact our invitation designer and asked her to start designing something. THEN – the guy emails and says, okay, here it is! But when we told him we’d already asked her to do it, he got upset and said he worked on it all night. Then why did you tell us Friday night at the earliest?? Dang buddy, your procrastinatioin and lack of communication are not my problem. You had great intentions, and we appreciate it, but come on. Be reasonable.