(Closed) If I can make it the rest of the day w/o losing my job, it’ll be a miracle!

posted 10 years ago in Career
Post # 17
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

Yet ANOTHER reason to be OH so happy that you only have one more day to be there and then…not for awhile.  Yay!!

Post # 18
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

You need a drink!

Post # 19
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

Oh my goodness girl!  You’ve got your hands full.

 

Here’s what you should do:

Just breathe and get your stuff done.  Things are going to go wrong and people are going to throw REALLY LAST MINUTE things at you.  All you can do is take them one at a time.

One of my BM’s cancelled 3 weeks before the wedding, decided she was coming 2 weeks before and the week of cancelled again.  All of our candles were melted the day of the wedding and so we had to buy all new ones the morning of and have our planner set them up.  Oh and our menu was wrong the day of the wedding.

Just smile, honey.  Don’t stress too much because really, the only important thing is that you are getting married to the love of your life.  You have him, the place and yourself all set up to go.  Everything else can go by the wayside, but you’ll still have each other.

I hope an encouraging word will help to get you through your day.Smile

Good luck and congratulations!

Post # 21
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2009

Yes, just breathe – only don’t breathe in the bathroom at work, apparently.  ๐Ÿ™‚

(Hope that made you laugh a little).

Post # 24
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

@layla omg girl! I wish my arms were long enough to reach to atl and give you a hug! Take a break for a couple hours and take a nice long bath and drink some warm coffee or tea or cocoa and if you can’t relax, count backwards from 1000. You’ll make it through!!!!!

Post # 25
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

So sorry you had such a bad day! You need a really stiff drink and to see your Fiance and just chill. It WILL get better. I want a drink just reading about your day:-) Is it 5 o’clock yet? Maybe I’ll have one for you.

 

(((HUGS)))

Post # 26
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2009

Oh, I’m SO sorry.  That’s nuts about your Bridesmaid or Best Man canceling – she should have told you a lot sooner!  October 1st was over a month ago!  Just look at it this way – your immediate family will be there, and it’s all about you and your Fiance and the commitment you two are making to each other.  I know it’s easier said than done, but try to focus on the two of you so you have happy memories instead of stressed-out memories.  Ignore wedding crap tonight (if it were me, I’d be having a big glass of red wine right now) and hopefully you’ll get some sleep and wake up and tomorrow will be a better day.  And if it’s not, we’ll be here for you to vent to.  ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 27
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

Layla, I am feeling for you so much right now.  It’s a lot at once, huh?  I wish that we could all be there to help you through this, because you know we all would.  This is definitely not a great day, but you’re almost there and we’re all here rooting for you.  I’m sure that in the end, everything will be as it should. 

Like peyton said, tomorrow will be better, and if it’s not, you know where to find us. 

Post # 29
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

glad you love us, we love you too!

Post # 30
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

deep down you know you will regret cancelling you worked so hard to have the wedding of your dreams. Dont let anyone distroy that or take your joy of marrying Mr. right away from you Huggs.

Post # 31
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Bumble Beekeeper

Um, can you take a sick day or something?

I’d get outta work as quick as possible if I were you ๐Ÿ™‚

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