(Closed) If I hear the word "snarky" one more &%#$ing time!

posted 6 years ago in Weddingbee
Post # 3
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2362 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2017

Snarky.

Had too. Sorry.

I too, feel like shit get sugarcoated around here too. Honest opinions are needed sometimes. I am not familiar with any of your comments or posts so I am not sure what brought this topic on. But, I do somewhat agree with you. If I look like crap in my dress I want to know. Etc…

Post # 4
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2725 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

I could not agree more. 

Post # 5
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758 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

It does get annoying when you disagree with someone, even if you’re being rational and pleasant about it, they automatically accuse you of being snarky. I don’t think some people understand what precisely snark is.

Post # 6
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3182 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I think there are bees out there willing to speak their mind.  I see snark as being about delivery, not substance.  

Post # 7
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7779 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

It’s a shame you feel the need to leave. The hostess team wishes you all the best with your life and future endeavors. 🙂

Post # 8
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1471 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

some people just dont like when you dont agree, and to them I guess its “snarky” or rude or whatever, and its sad….. make sure when you post you have the same opinion as me even if I am asking for honest opinions, I feel ilke have have to say “Im sorry I feel this way but…..” 

its not everbody its just those that are that way really stand out

Post # 10
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745 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

There are far too many people who, when faced with an opposing opinion, cry foul and wonder why people are “always being mean to meeeeeee!!!” 

I agree with @Miss Leopard:, it does seem like some ladies are expected to be placated because they’re a bride. Don’t come to a public forum and post if you want harmonious shouts of “YES!! You are right!” in unison.

I think “snarky” and “tacky” both should be banned forever.

Post # 11
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755 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@Willow1991:  

 

dang it you stole my line!

 

i don’t post in the threads where I disagree with the majority. maybe i’m being a weenie.

Post # 12
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1714 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2016

@Miss Leopard:  Hear hear lady! Absolutely 100% agree with you, I think some of the women  here are fairly thin-skinned… Really irritating. If they think half the stuff here is snarky, then they must be incredibly new to the internet… Lol.

Post # 13
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2494 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

@Natalieh86:  +1. I have seen many a disagreement on here that is politely dealt with, rather than being rude or accusatory.

Post # 14
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2104 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

It would make a huge difference if people just stated in their OP “hey, I want sympathy and not differing opinions on this vent…” That way those of us who appreciate completely honest opinions wouldn’t continue on with those threads.  It does get extremely frustrating to give an honest opinion and then get backlash for it.  Like a PP mentioned, if I look like crap, I want to know it!

 @zippylef:  I don’t think she’s made the decision to leave yet, she just said she’s thinking about it.  

Post # 15
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5428 posts
Bee Keeper

I myself have never sugarcoated anything I said. But I never swore. I have been rude, I think, once and I got beaten down for it… but that just makes me say things in a different way that is not offensive to anyone (on the bee) personally.

Post # 16
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5405 posts
Bee Keeper

Hmmm. I agree with this, but I also think there is a small group of people who like to stir the pot honestly. I think it goes both ways, and like a PP said, it really depends on the delivery. 

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