(Closed) If I’m a Bridezilla, he’s a Groomzilla.

posted 7 years ago in Grooms/men
Post # 3
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 1999

@Bostonsmom:  Could he have meant that he would get that style tux (and not the color)?? 

Post # 4
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

@Bostonsmom: I can understand your frustration but you have to look at it from his point of view.  It’s also HIS day and he should have some say, especially in what he wears.  Think of it like this, what if he turned around and told you that he didn’t want you wearing an ivory dress and you HAD to wear white or vice versa?

Post # 6
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: December 2011

I totally get where you are coming from but in the end NO one but you will think “Oh my gosh that black tux clashes SO horribly with the decor!’ If they do they have way to much time on their hands. 

Post # 7
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I, for one, am not of the school that the groom should choose whatever tux he wants. Fiance is very confident about going by himself to pick out the tuxes even though he admits that he can not dress himself on a typical day. He’ll wear a light blue and gray plaid shirt with brown cords, as just one example, and he admits his female coworkers give him weird looks. Also, I’ve told him repeatedly that I want the groomsmen vests to match my bridesmaids but he can’t ever remember the name of the color he needs to order. I know, I’ve quizzed him. Most men can not be trusted with fashion decisions.

Post # 8
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

I have to agree with ENarcy  it is also his day to.  He should have some say in what he gets to wear. 

Post # 9
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

@iheartnerds:It seems in this case though it’s not about the groom making disastrious fashion choices, it’s a matter of color preference.  I would be all for her making the decision for her groom if he were trying to wear a powder blue suit and ruffled shirt, but it’s a matter of similar colors that honestly no one in the wedding or attending the wedding will remember or even care about.

Post # 11
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

@Bostonsmom:I guess my Fiance and I are just different.  We realize we each have our own personalities and are our own people so we’re more open to having our own styles and just meshing them together.

Post # 12
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

I agree with Enarcy.. besides black goes with EVERYTHING. If he really wants black, I would let him wear black

Post # 14
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: December 2011

I still would say, having black tuxes and having pink and black decor aren’t the same, The black tuxes will fit in fine with brown and pink decor. 

Post # 16
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: December 2011

How does a black tux mean you have to change the flowers or the bridesmaid dresses? 

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