(Closed) If one more person asks….

posted 8 years ago in Married Life
Post # 3
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7587 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

I feel the same thing when people ask me, “How’s the wedding planning going?” I’m getting married in 2 months I’m done planning. I’m more stressed about the actions I have to take to complete all of the planning I did earlier. LOL

Post # 4
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2012

i’m NYE, but my guy and i have been together for 8 years, so we get asked when we are going to get married all the time.  i’ll bloody tell you when i’m engaged.  (NOTE:  he wants to get engaged now,  but i am making him wait until i lose weight.  sounds silly but important to me)

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

I hear you!!! The most annoying to me are…

How’s married life?

Does it feel any different?

When are you having babies?

or I’ll make a comment about SOMETHING (not feeling well, being tired, etc…) and the first thing I hear is “Maybe you’re pregnant!”.

Post # 6
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2313 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

“Isn’t that really expensive?” re: anything wedding related. If we’re the ones paying for it, why do you care!?

Post # 7
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93 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

Sunshine 23:I get that pregnancy comment all the time when I say ANYTHING is off with me. I find it so annoying! I hate the “when are you going to have babies?” bit too. Didnt your mother ever tell you it was rude to ask about other peoples sex lives?

Post # 8
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655 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

UHHH totally agree with the MONEY questions, HOW CRASS!

Have you started dieting yet?? (Ummm seriously?)

OOOO and

ARE YOU NERVOUS? (No I’m not, I’m marrying my best friend!)

Post # 9
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2012

@Mrs.Tillmann: my friend’s mother in law kept asking her this so she eventually told her she had fertility issues and was unable to conceive (not true) lol.

Post # 10
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396 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

Oh yeah; well not long ago we went to a next morning brunch for the bride and groom. They opened their gifts and one of the Brides Family gave them a onesie; socks & a croncrete babies first hand print making kit…. yeah that was a little odd to me… lol

Oh yeah; & I’m guilty of the “How’s Married Life” question…. lol guess i’ll think twice before I ask again…

Post # 11
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

I HATE this question!!!!! I always say “its normal” or “its the same” because I would rather not talk about something that people that are not married, engaged or in a relationship cant understand!

 

Post # 12
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I DETEST being asked, “So, how’s the wedding planning going?” I feel like (a) they don’t really want me to go into detail, nor do I (e.g. “Well, things are going pretty well. Today I need to sned my photographer a cheque for the final balance, and then I have to sign off on my signage for the reception.” Um, boring), and (b) I never feel like I can say anything other than. “Great, thanks.” Like, really, what else is there to say?!

Drives me NUTS!

Post # 13
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

@Sunshine23: I feel you! God forbid I say anything about being tired or my stomach hurting everyone will ask me, “Are you pregnant?! Maybe you’re pregnant!!”…uh, no!

Post # 14
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I was just thinking this today! I always answer “the same” and usually the asker doesn’t really have anything to day and I can walk away! hahahahaha

Post # 15
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

my two most hated questions:

“how does it FEEL to be married???” — um the same it felt to be shacking up and living in sin for the last few years… just now he REALLY cant go anywhere… LOL

“or how many kids are yall gonna have???” — um try NONE… i hate children. (well hate is a strong word, we just dont want any…..

Post # 16
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2009

I hated “Are you knocked up yet?”   The fact is that, yes we were… but it was no one else’s business until we made it so.

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