(Closed) If one of you were infertile

posted 6 years ago in Wellness
Post # 76
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Sugar bee

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AB Bride:  I would be happy and so would he. Neither of us want children EVER and if anyone is going to be infirtle I think it’s great when it lines up with people who don’t want children.

I have a friend who’s tried for over a year and can’t get pregnant. It just seems so unfair 🙁 Someone who wants one so bad can’t, and someone who [probably] can have them (me) doesn’t want them.

Post # 77
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

My husband had a vasectomy( before we dated) …I’m fine with it..sorta 🙂 We each have adult children and although I would love to have a baby with my husband it’s not going to happen. I Suppose I’ll have to spoil my grand kids:)

Post # 78
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Sugar bee

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icanhearyousmile:  I hate the whole “you’re selfish if you don’t want kids” thing. I hear that too (I don’t want any) but I think it’s selfish to have a kid if you aren’t willing to put them first above everything (sleep, vacations, yourself…etc) and I am not nor will ever be ready to do that.

So tell those people who are saying you’re selfish that you think it’d be selfish to have kids just because everyone else wants you to 😉

Post # 79
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

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playdohpants:  Yeh that’s generally my go-to response. “Well I’m not having them just because you think I should, I’m the one that has to pay for them and change their diapers and sacrifice sleep and put my career on hold and and and and AND.” They’re usually like “I was just kidding” (no you weren’t). xD

Post # 80
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Actually, I would be happy and relieved. I’ve never ever wanted to be pregnant, or give birth, or have a baby. If we really wanted a child we would adopt an older one, but honestly I would be perfectly happy if it was just the two of us forever.

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