(Closed) If someone went to your wedding, to make a scene to ruin your wedding…

posted 7 years ago in Family
  • poll: Would you let this ruin your day?
    Yes, the day would be ruined : (3 votes)
    13 %
    Sort of, I'd be upset, but I wouldn't let it bug me to much : (8 votes)
    33 %
    No, once the cops show up, I'd be back to celebrating : (13 votes)
    54 %
  • Post # 3
    5654 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: April 2011

    I really would have the security and police take care of it and wouldn’t think about it again…

    I might laugh about some parts later.. like seeing her being escorted away.. but otherwise I’d let it go. lol

    Post # 4
    45 posts
    • Wedding: April 2015

    It is your day, you are marrying the love of your life and best friend, nothing could possibley ruin that day  Good luck!

    Post # 5
    7300 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2012

    Drug her and keep her in a closet all day? 


    If it were me, I would warn her that if she plans on acting a fool, then security will throw her out. Even if she made a scene, my day wouldn’t be ruined. Everyone would just see her as the crazy bitch she is. (I have a crazy cousin, so I know how you feel) 

    Post # 6
    1325 posts
    Bumble bee

    Well, once this person was removed, because you can bet the instant she did anything she would be GONE, I wouldn’t care. I would look at the staring guests and say “And there you have my darling _________ people.” in a slightly condescending tone. Then I would shrug and smile and guest would take the cue to move on from the incident as well.

    Post # 7
    74 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: June 2011

    I have an Aunt who doesn’t get along with my father, her brother. She wont throw food at people…lol….but she will be drunk and probably say something. I have a bouncer/bridesmaid who has experience roughing people up. She has been contracted to handle it.

    Post # 8
    921 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    i was told i had to incite my cousin and aunt or else my grandma wouldnt come. seriously they the snobbiest most backstabbing women i have ever met. they dont know how to let things from the past go.  they bring it up every family get together and it always creates drama and ruins the family get together. since i have to invite them in order to get my grandma to come i plan on haveing my cop friends at her table with strict orders to drag them out when they start getting excessive.

    Post # 9
    658 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: April 2012

    I am preparing for the drama at my reception too. Most of our guests are in law enforcement, and several have offered to handle any “situations” that arise. I am practicing what to say after someone starts mess and gets escorted out. “At least noone will forget our wedding!” Then laugh it off and call for a refill of my drink! I’m not gonna let FI’s bat-shit crazy relatives ruin our day!!!

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