(Closed) If you and your SO are complete opposites, post here :)

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 4
1477 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

We are! We balance each other out. He gets me organized and I get him to relax! 🙂


Personality: laid back, spontanious, artistic, patient, empethetic, always trying something new, sooo forgetful, messy

Physical: very fair, light brown hair, blue eyes, freckles, a few extra pounds

Darling Husband:

Personality: stubborn, planner, organized, opinionated, book and street smarts, likes routines, dependable, clean

Physical: Lebanese, black hair, brown eyes, slender

Post # 5
549 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

Hahaha we couldn’t be more different physically! I am tiny short, brown hair/eyes. He is tall with blonde hair and blue eyes. I’m Jewish, he’s Christian. I’m high strung and emotional, he’s laid back and patient. I like clean, he’s more lax.

Post # 6
10453 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2014

Me: tall, white, pale, super excitable, type A planner, love to read

Him: shorter than me, Asian, darker skinned, glasses, perfectionist, not a planner in advance at all, loves video games

Im sure there are more differences but I can’t think ATM.

Post # 7
1002 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

My husband and I are totally opposites!


Personality: Have to be in control, emotional, impatient, love trying different food, over protective parent (to our dog), speak my mind, like relaxing evenings watching television or reading.

Physical: Brown, curly hair, brown eyes, olive skin tone



Personality: Laid back, never shows emotion, extremely patient, hates trying new things, avoids conflict at all costs, likes playing video games in his spare time.

Physical: Blonde hair, green eyes, paler complexion.

Post # 8
529 posts
Busy bee

My SO and I are opposites in a lot of ways. We joke that if we want to order food for each other we should just pick the opposite of what we would want! He is vanilla, I am chocolate. He is winter, I am summer. He is a republican, I am a democrat. He is neat, I am messy. He likes comedies, I like action. He is great under pressure and I fall apart. He is more of a thinker I am more emotional. But at the end of the day we have the same goals in life (of course we want to get there completely opposite ways!) and we complement each other nicely. I think having differences keeps things interesting!

Post # 9
1289 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Oooh! Us! We are very different in personality but have similar interests are very compatible!

Husband: Passive, diplomatic, hard working, thoughtful. 

Tall, slender, blue eyes, and light brown hair.  PALE irish boy!

Me: Assertive, opinionated, loud, and playful!

Short, curvy, dark hair and eyes, Lebanese girl!

Post # 11
963 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

It’s fun to see everyone else’s responses. We are also complete opposites.


Type A. Driven. Controlling. Quick temper. Strong willed. Independent. Financially Savvy. Very rational. Introvert.

Physical: Pale skin. Green eyes. Blonde Hair. Short.


Laidback. Highly emotional. People person. Non-confrontational. Impatient. Financial spender. Dreamer.

Physical: Brown skin, hair and eyes (Indian). Average height

Post # 12
505 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

My Fiance and I are complete opposites too but in a great way, I think we complement each other 🙂


Post # 13
11390 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

Yes, we are! I always say that we balance each other out! I think that is one of the reasons we get along so great! If we was just the same I could see us bumping heads ALOT.

I am VERY, VERY type A! Stubburn, get stressed really easy, impatient, I always want to be incontrol & the list goes on!

My husband is VERY calm & laid back. Sooo patient & hardly ever gets stressed… It works great for us! 🙂

We have things in common for sure though. We both love alot of the same things, same interests, ect. Its our personalities that are different!

Post # 14
1150 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

This is us for sure.

My man is one of those quiet, detail-oriented, geniuses who also happens to be an athletic, hockey player and total babe

I am LOUD, impulsive, big-picture-thinking, punk rock, booknerd and a total tomboy troll. 

Somehow it just works!

Post # 15
128 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

Him: organized, logical, superb memory (he remembers everything, he is like a little robot), coordinated, athletic (was on a pre Olympic team for soccer and went to state for track), loud and confident, very high energy, 6 feet tall, very lean, muscular legs with no fat, pepper and salt hair, and the most beautiful blue eyes I have ever seen.

Me: rather scatterbrained, emotional, I don’t remember what I had for lunch (or anything), total clutz, I got a few participation awards for sports, quiet and always nervous, pretty chill, 5’6″, a bit above average for weight, chunky legs, brown hair, and poop brown eyes.

Post # 16
5956 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2018

If hubby is sandpaper I am silk, he’s the hard pan salt of the Earth and I’m the finely milled sugar from the mill.  He runs hot and blows his stack, I’ve got a cool temperament and the patience of a saint.  

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