(Closed) If you could change one thing about your life…what would it be?

posted 7 years ago in The Lounge
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013 - Kempinski San Lawrenz, Gozo

i try to live with no regrets…but I do wish I never had these huge issues with my appearance. It’s held me back on so many things. I’m learning to come to terms with myself now (last summer I went swimming for the first time in 7 years!) but I still haven’t managed to start losing weight, I keep sabotaging myself. :/

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2009

I live with no regrets and very grateful for each and everything/ person that comes my way. However if I could change one thing, we actually both agree on this; is that we would have tried to have a baby right after my surgery almost 4 years ago. We were told then I may experience difficulty conceiving but never to the degree that we were faced with. Do not know if it would’ve mattered, but we would change that if we could. I would do anything in the world to somehow reverse my infertility.

Post # 5
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

I really don’t have any.

I do regret that since the wedding I seem to have made eating my full time job.

 

Post # 6
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

@MissGreen: Aw, I’m so sorry to hear that, about the infertility. Just wanted to say that.

Post # 7
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

I would like to say I would have went to college right after high school…though I say that I don’t need it for what I do now, I think it would have been useful and am sometimes sorry that I didn’t…though it wasn’t really my fault but that is way too long to get into here. But you know, when I think about it, I figure I probably wouldn’t have met my sweet husband and have the life that I have now if I had gone, so I can’t really complain about it.

Plus I don’t have student loans to pay back so that helps me sleep at night lol.

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I would have done my eyebrows more often lol. Im not even kidding. I went through a phase where I just let em bush around ( Ugh what was I thinking )

 

I really dont have much regrets, but this is more of a wish then a regret. I wish that I had/have the courage to do things my way and put myself first in certain situations. Like, instead of living with my parents and going through THEIR problems I would have loved to room with a friend and start a wonderful life on my own and build my self. Or feel free to enjoy this wedding process based on my own wants and needs not what my mom wants but that cant happen.. 🙁 So oh well..

Post # 9
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

I would changed the relationship between my brain and my body. I’ve struggled with eating disorders and body dysmorphia for a long time, and I think I’m finally ready to move forward. I just wish it never started.

Post # 10
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Buzzing Beekeeper

I would have finished college when I was supposed to and not instead gotten involved with some bad people. Though if I hadn’t moved to escape the craziness, I never would have met my husband or had our beautiful little girl, so I can’t really regret it. It’s just a choice that messed me up for a few bad years.

Ditto to no student loans, gotta love that aspect of it! Some of my friends, gah… I don’t see how they will ever pay them off.

Post # 11
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

I don’t have many regrets at all. If I could change anything it would honestly be that I would be making more money haha. But I am working on that the only way I can, working hard.

Post # 12
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I don’t really know what I would change. This is a pretty big question. I have regrets, but I am at peace with them. So maybe I wouldn’t change anything? If I didn’t regret things that I’ve done I don’t know if I would have learned some big lessons in life.

Post # 13
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

@KatyElle: Oh man student loans… I got a nice amount to pay off so far.. lol =/

Post # 14
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66 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I regret not picking some kind of career to focus on while studying in school. So now I’ve been in college pretty much since 2005 with no career direction and I still feel lost. I’m not even looking for something I even enjoy anymore, it’s about what the fastest track to get me the hell out of school. 

Post # 15
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2657 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

More independent, less afraid of change and a better paying job.

Post # 16
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

I wouldn’t have married my ex-husband

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