(Closed) If you could change planning the “Wedding” would you?

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 4
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3520 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

I’ve only been planning for about 6 months, but already I’m wondering if we shouldn’t have had a simple Destination Wedding in Florida or the islands.  We’re both older, and it seems like such a ton of money and bother for a day…  Don’t get me wrong, I love what we came up with, but I’m sure I’ll be thinking “why???” at some point.

Post # 5
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1575 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

If I had the money, I would hire a good wedding planner, I am 100% serious. IMO, wedding planning has proved to be the biggest PITA I’ve had to deal with in a long time!

Post # 6
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463 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

Yes.  With Fiance being military and the possibility of him not making it to the wedding, I would have planned the date a little smarter, announced things later, and planned a smaller wedding.  But oh well, can’t change it, so we’ll roll with the punches and pray he’ll make it on 12.17.

Post # 7
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9482 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

I am about a year out.  Have my venue that includes food, ceremony, cake, etc.  So, I was just sitting here wondering how the hell I’m going to pull the rest off.  I’m scared.

Post # 8
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8 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I would have never gone through this had I known how I would feel today.  I have had the hardest time , my parents are behaving horrible, and my siblings no longer want to attend.  Oh, should I mention my wedding is only three weeks away.  We are meeting with a mediator tomorrow night.  Hoping to resolve enough issues to get everyone to the wedding day.  I love my Fiance, I can’t wait to be married.  I just wish I would have skipped the wedding.  I really wanted something small and simple.  This is nothing short of complicated on so many levels and no where near simple. 

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