Post # 1
Another thread reminded me of this: My Darling Husband and I had a conversation awhile back in which I said that while orgasms are, of course, amazing if I had to choose between only being able to have orgasms or sex, I’d choose sex without a doubt. So, ladies…if you had to choose…what would it be?
For clarification, sex=intercourse and orgasms would be clitoral
Post # 3
How would you have an orgasm without any type of sexual acts taking place?
Post # 4
@ForeverBlessed: Magical orgasm from the land of What Ifs.
Post # 5
I assume sex = penetration?
Post # 6
@yumiyumi: Okay then lol I would definitely choose sex, because I think that intimacy is very important.
Post # 7
This question is so bizarre.
Post # 8
Because penis-vagina action is very nice. 😀
Post # 9
Both are awful. Blech! You can have ’em.
(said no one, ever)
I can’t answer this question.
Post # 10
@ForeverBlessed: I sometimes randomly get them in my sleep when I’m not even having necessarily dirty dreams. I CAN’T be the only one.
Assuming you mean you’d have to give up all sexual activity in favour of unsolicited orgasms, I think I’d choose sex. I would miss the intimacy more than the actual orgasm.
Post # 11
@SapphireSun: I’ve never gotten one in my sleep — jealous!
Post # 12
Who the heck voted they can do without?!
Post # 13
@SapphireSun: I’ve definitely had orgasms during dreams. It’s a gift 🙂
Post # 14
Confession: I’ve never had the big O. Believe me, it’s not from lack of trying or skill on either DH’s part or mine. I think I’m just incapable.
Sex is still pretty damn amazing, though. I certainly wish I knew what an orgasm felt like, but I certainly won’t feel like my life was incomplete if I die sixty years from now after decades of amazing, orgasmless sex with Darling Husband.
Post # 15
@StuporDuck: LMFAO I just about spat out my wine!
Post # 16
Assuming both include loving intimacy (e.g. “orgasms only” is if DH couldn’t get an erection), I think I’m in the minority and I’d take orgasms over intercourse.