(Closed) If you could only have one: sex or orgasms?

posted 6 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: If you could only have one....
    I'd take orgasms : (57 votes)
    42 %
    I'd take sex : (74 votes)
    54 %
    I can do without either : (5 votes)
    4 %
  • Post # 3
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    How would you have an orgasm without any type of sexual acts taking place?

    Post # 5
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: February 2013

    I assume sex = penetration?

    Post # 6
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    @yumiyumi:  Okay then lol I would definitely choose sex, because I think that intimacy is very important.

    Post # 7
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    This question is so bizarre. 

     

    But, orgasms.

    Post # 8
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: December 2012

    Sex.

    Because penis-vagina action is very nice. 😀

    Post # 9
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: January 1992

    Both are awful. Blech! You can have ’em.

     

     

     

     

     

    (said no one, ever)

     

     

     

    I can’t answer this question.

     

    Post # 10
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    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2010

    @ForeverBlessed:  I sometimes randomly get them in my sleep when I’m not even having necessarily dirty dreams.  I CAN’T be the only one. 

    Assuming you mean you’d have to give up all sexual activity in favour of unsolicited orgasms, I think I’d choose sex. I would miss the intimacy more than the actual orgasm. 

    Post # 12
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    Bee Keeper

    Who the heck voted they can do without?!

    Post # 13
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    @SapphireSun:  I’ve definitely had orgasms during dreams.  It’s a gift 🙂

    Post # 14
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: January 2012

    Confession: I’ve never had the big O.  Believe me, it’s not from lack of trying or skill on either DH’s part or mine.  I think I’m just incapable.

    Sex is still pretty damn amazing, though.  I certainly wish I knew what an orgasm felt like, but I certainly won’t feel like my life was incomplete if I die sixty years from now after decades of amazing, orgasmless sex with Darling Husband.

    Post # 15
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: December 2012

    @StuporDuck:  LMFAO I just about spat out my wine!

    Post # 16
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    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    Assuming both include loving intimacy (e.g. “orgasms only” is if DH couldn’t get an erection), I think I’m in the minority and I’d take orgasms over intercourse.

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