(Closed) If you could trade places for one day with your SO?

posted 8 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: March 2012

How tired his sorry butt would be at 8pm after he got up at 4:45am and went to work then the gym after.  Then maybe he’d stop nagging me about why are you so tired all the time?

Post # 4
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 1999

He’d realize that we don’t TRY to be emotional, we just are!

Oh, and … having cramps and a period SUCK! 

Post # 5
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

How difficult a 2 year old can be when you have to take care of her 27/7

Post # 6
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2011

That I’m on weddingbee all day at work.

Post # 8
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I would love my Fiance to understand how girls minds work. He always wonder how I can take nothing and make it into a huge deal… I try to tell him girls exaggerate everything but he doesn’t get it. He doesn’t understand that we are crazy! Haha!

Post # 9
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

He would learn that I’m just as tired as he is after my day. When he gets home and is tired from his day he feels like it’s perfectly justifiable to be exhausted and cranky and just go to bed but I get the same amount of rest that he does and I can still work out, clean and make dinner. I love him to death but when he’s tired or sick he can be a big baby! I love taking care of him though.
 
He would also learn that I can’t help how emotional I am! It’s just the way I am lol.

Post # 12
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2010

Totally with you girls on the emotional thing. I would love for him to experience my sensitive or bad moods for just one day! I would love to ask him why he’s upset and crying and him say, “Uh..I don’t know!” and so he would finally understand I don’t always have a reason to cry!!!!!!!!!! 

Also would love to not have to style my hair or put on makeup each morning for work. 🙂

Post # 13
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

I agree with the OP–he’d learn how time-consuming it is for me to get ready every morning.  And how obsessed w/ WB I am.

Post # 14
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

@runnerbeez:Thank you!!!! After I wrote that I felt like people would think I’m horribly insensitive lol.

Post # 15
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I have to echo the emotional stuff too…so he could see sometimes when I’m PMSing I’m crazy but I can’t help it!

Prob would rather trade places with him, I’m a freakish worrier nad he’s so calm, would be nice to have my mind quiet for a day lol

Post # 16
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

Well, I’d want to trade on a day when he’s not at work (he works 12 hour shifts).  And this may be really really shallow.  or crude, or something.  But I think about this when we’re camping.  If I were a dude… peeing outside would be so much easier…   I would have to test this if we traded places.  *grin*

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