(Closed) If you didn’t RSVP please sit outside?!

posted 8 years ago in Logistics
Post # 3
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

that’s insane! I can’t believe the bride didn’t make follow up calls to see who was going to be there! That’s her own fault! What a dummy!

Post # 3
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

Yeah I thought that was super tacky! I couldn’t figure out who asked him to announce that… the couple? I can’t imagine he came up with that all by himself.

Post # 4
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Honey bee

It’s rude to show up without sending an rsvp. But that dj should have fired on the spot since his comment was uncalled for. I wouldn’t be surprised if folks who did rsvp got up and left (or had the desire to) after such a scene.

Post # 5
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

My Fiance and I watched that too and both looked at each other from across the couch and started cracking up. It was so tacky.

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

I never saw that episode.  As mortified as I would be if that happened I appreciate the humour of the situation…

Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

I saw it too and was shocked. He had to have been instructed to say that. A DJ isn’t going to come up with that on his own. Why would he care? If you are going to call people out like that then you should do it before they even get into the reception. I wonder if they went around checking to make sure the non-RSVPs went outside. That would’ve made good tv. Ha!

Post # 9
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

Our mouths flew wide open when we heard that. I have a feeling that someone told him to say that. lol

Post # 10
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Busy bee

Just a thought… I didn’t see the episode, but perhaps within that bride’s cultural background that is acceptable.  A cousin of mine works in the funeral business, and gave a description of another group’s method of mourning.  What he shared would be considered highly tacky and rude in my social circle, but apparently is deemed completely normal in this other group.  Sometimes, we aren’t aware of how other people do things!

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 1996

That’s hilarious, and I kind of love it.

Post # 13
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

I also think thats super rude! they were all just like standing outside. There may not have been enough seating inside but i think there would have been enough room to stand inside instead of outside. sheesh. I would have just left I wouldnt have even stayed, but then again I would never not rsvp and then just show up.  

Post # 14
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

@Missbliss: good point!!

I didnt see the episode but if it was my wedding I would be shocked and be asking the DJ to rephrase!

Post # 15
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

How awful. I would never do that!

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