(Closed) If you don’t have something nice to say… (LONG SORRY)

posted 11 years ago in Emotional
Post # 61
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548 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2017

Your pictures are beautiful.  My sister-in-law will be taking my wedding photos for free and I know she’s competent and can do nice editing.  And frankly, we can’t afford even a couple hundred dollars for a photographer…however, I would never insinuate that someone was “crazy” for spending money on a professional photographer…it’s your wedding, your budget, and you did what you wanted.  I would have such a hard time not telling her to shut up.  I would just say that the next time she comments on something negatively just say, “We did what worked for us” and move on.

Post # 62
Member
648 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

Pictures are beautiful, they seemed to get every special detail.

Kind of off topic, but I asked my Fiance last week for the rose necklace one of the bridesmaids is wearing!

Post # 65
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1636 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Wow she is a bitter Betty! I’m glad you sent her that fb message. If she posts anything else regarding the photos that is negative you then need to make it so she cannot comment on anything, because at that point she is just being more disrespectful to you and the wonderful photographers! Your photos are amazing and you look gorgeous!

Let us know what she says back!

Post # 66
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303 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

It may be a little immature but I would get your friends to comment on your album saying what AMAZING photos you have and oh my, what an AMAZING photographer you had gotten for your wedding and how LUCKY you were to get him! Add me, I’ll do it! bahaha

Post # 68
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5891 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2010

My first reaction was what a b****, but after reading your additional post, I feel really, really sad for her. I know how I felt after the flowers were the wrong color at my wedding, but everything else was perfect. But I didn’t sleep well for 3 days and I still get pangs of anger when I see the untouched up photos. Can you imagine how she must feel about her wedding fat and plain and nothing like she had imagined and dreamed about? Wow, how can you fell anything but sympathy for her?

Now don’t get me wrong, what she wrote was mean and I have a feeling she is rather bitter about everything in her life and lashes out. But maybe it’ll help you to see that she is in real pain (masked as jealousy) and that this is the only way she knows how to react.

Post # 69
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3195 posts
Sugar bee

The photos were fabulous! I can’t believe you still let that woman talk to you, she’s such a drag!

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