(Closed) If you don’t want to come to my wedding just say so – no need to make excuses

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
1638 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

@Legallyblondiebride:  The fact she never sent a wedding thank you and the fact you bought her something despite her attitude shows you are the bigger person. People like that don’t need time wasted on them wondering why they hate us by really neead our pity and snickering hehehe. Obviously there is something about you she can’t stand. Oh well. Life goes on. She is just as mortal as you are. You will have a great wedding and well be a more gracious bride than she ever was

Post # 4
9674 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

Oh, wow!  She sounds awful.  Do you have any idea what she is holding against you?  Is she possibly jealous of you in some way?  So sorry to hear you’re having to deal with this, I know you’re stressed out enough as it is.  But, you know, let the haters be haters and don’t let it spoil anything for you.  Think of it this way – she’s not coming to your wedding – yay!!  That’s a good thing – you don’t need her bad vibes around you on YOUR day.  You have always done the right thing by treating her nicely, and if she doesn’t treat you right in return, then it is truly her loss.

Smile  Don’t let it get you down, hon!!

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