(Closed) If you found your ring, would you peek?

posted 5 years ago in Rings
Post # 61
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

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milabeehappy:  I would totally look. And probably try it on and send pictures to my friends, lol. 

Post # 62
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Bumble Beekeeper

Nope nope nope. I knew exactly where Fiance was hiding the ring for the 6 weeks or so he had it before proposing, but I did NOT want to see it until he was proposing with it.

Post # 63
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

To be honest.. I would probably look and then feel horrible and guilty about it for eternity.  Try your best to resist the urge and ruin a special moment

Post # 64
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Newbee

Originally he said I couldn’t see it until the proposal. Then last night I was asking so many questions that he offered to let me see it. I got rose gold, so I risked it and got a lower color diamond, but he said it looks kind of yellow. Now I’m tempted to take him up on his offer since we only have 30 days to return it. He did put it on my finger while my eyes were closed to see if it fit.

Post # 65
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Newbee

To answer your question- no, I wouldn’t peak if I found it, but I did just text him asking if I could see it when he gets gone. 

Post # 67
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Helper bee

Yup, without a doubt.

Post # 68
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Bumble bee

No.  

It would be deceitful and would hurt his suprise.

Post # 69
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2016

absolutely. but my fi knows that’s exactly who I am and he loves me for who I am….nosey and all. I’m the type of person that literally would unwrap my presents under the tree and then rewrap them all through childhood. Or search the house high and low to find all my gifts my parents hid. Eventually they stopped bringing them home and hid them at friends houses. I can’t help being that way. I like finding my gifts more than I like surprises.

I helped fi pick out the ring so that wasn’t a big deal for me, I knew what it looked like before hand but I for sure would have looked if I had found it and hadn’t seen it yet.

Post # 70
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2017

I would have if I had known where it was. If I was a more diligent vacuumer though I would have found it. Fiance was worried I saw it when he learned that I vacuumed basically all around it hahaha.

 

Post # 71
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

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milabeehappy:  I found it and I looked.  I even tried it on!  Ha!  That’s what he gets for making me wait.

Post # 73
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Sugar bee

I would have absolutely no self control in this situation.

I am not proud.

Post # 75
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2016

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cbgg:  Totally this! Thing is, if he had ever caught me, I think we would have laughed and just called it done so I would have spoiled my proposal and only had myself to blame but risk was worth it (and he should have hidden it better)!

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