(Closed) If you had a miscarriage…

posted 5 years ago in TTC
Post # 2
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2787 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

geniebean14:  You have opened a lot of posts since your loss, and you have received a lot of great advice and support, it seems to me you’re repeating the same questions as if you were expecting for someone to give you a specific answer. If you’re concerned about the bleeding, you should schedule an appointment with your doctor to discuss all your concerns and have an ultrasound to make sure everything’s fine. I mean this in the most loving way, it seems to me you’re struggling and you need to talk with a medical professional, an anonymous board is not going to give you the answers you need. Dealing with a pregnancy loss is hard, and I hope you get all the support you deserve. Wishing you all the best.

Below is the same answer I gave you in another post:

After my 5 chemical pregnancies I was told that we could TTC as soon as AF stopped, in my journey TTC I’ve seen 3 REs so far, so this was the same advice from 3 different doctors. Based on your hcg numbers, you had a chemical pregnancy. Sex wasn’t painful and it didn’t cause any bleeding. When I had a miscarriage at 8 weeks and had a D&C I was advised to not have sex for at least a week after the D&C, that’s because it was a surgery, once the week was over sex was normal, no pain. With a D&C I was advised to skip 1 cycle to give my body time to recover from the procedure.

Post # 3
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1034 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

Turtle83:  +1.

I can’t say much more than that. A miscarriage is hard enough to go through without conparing your experience to everyone else’s. Please listen to your doctor and the wonderful advice you have already received on here. The advice I received here when I had my loss was very helpful. Most importantly, take care of yourself. There will come a time when you will look back on this as a bad experience, but it will be in the past. But you need to try to move past this stage of asking the same questions, it’s holding you back from healing. Please take some time to mourn your loss and try to start the healing process. I wish you the best.

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