(Closed) If you had to choose…

posted 7 years ago in Money
  • poll: Which would you chose?
    Honeymoon : (158 votes)
    91 %
    Videographer : (16 votes)
    9 %
  • Post # 3
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2014

    Probably the honeymoon. Yes, videos are nice to have- but it sounds like you two would really enjoy a nice vacation by yourselves. You will have pictures to remember your wedding. I guess personally I just don’t think videos are really necessary.

    Oh and Alaskan cruises are amazing!!! We did one a few years ago and it was by far the best vacation I have ever been on 🙂 

    Post # 4
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    Buzzing bee

    Oh man that is a tough choice. I am a little bias towards Alaska my self… (for obvious reasons)

    on one hand yes, videos are lovely and you will never regret having a great wedding video, on the other hand you and your new hubby making new memories together will be unforgettable too. Is there a way you could have it video taped not-professionally so at least you would have something?

    I vote for alaska ONLY if you have a good photographer

    Post # 5
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    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2011

    Honeymoon 100%. We didn’t have a videographer and it was fine. We would have loved one but it wasn’t in the budget. It’s easy enough to have someone record the bits and pieces of the wedding that you’re looking for but no one can give you an alternative to a Honeymoon. 

    Darling Husband and I were in the same boat as you. We were together for almost 7 years and never taken a vacation.  I wouldn’t have traded our Honeymoon for anything. We did a cruise as well and it was the best time of our lives. 

    Post # 6
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    Blushing bee

    I don’t personally know anyone who has watched their own wedding video more than once, so I vote honeymoon.  I also think an Alaskan cruise would be a ton of fun.  If you watch home movies often, the video might be a better choice for you.  If you can’t remember where the videos are, then go for the honeymoon.

    Post # 7
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    As long as you have a photographer to capture yoru special day, take the cruise!!! Trust me, a cruise is an amazing experience with any food you want any time you want, adn everyone there is there to help you and they are so friendly!  It is a perfect way to relax after the wedding!

    Post # 8
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    2100 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: April 2012

    I do not like the way I always see the video guys getting in the way of the wedding – to me it throws off the feel – I think videos are ok but prefer the photos anyways.

    Go on a honeymoon the memories and pictures from that will add more to the experience than the videographer!

    Post # 9
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: June 2008

    Ask a friend who has a videocamera to tape the wedding and go on a honeymoon. That time after the wedding is so precious and fun!!

    Post # 10
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2011

    I voted the video. We had a friend tape the wedding and they ended up with just bits and pieces. I regret not having a videographer to catch the stuff I missed, I heard great stories afterwards. You have your entire life to go on vacation, your wedding is only once! 

    Post # 11
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    Honeymoon for sure – how likely are you to watch you wedding video in the future?  Not very often, whereas you’ll always have the memories of a wonderful holiday together.

    As another option, do you have any family members or friends who could video tape the wedding for you?   One of my cousins filmed our ceremony for us (it was a short 20 minute ceremony) and then filmed the key moments of the reception – the toasts, first dance, cake cutting, and father/daughter and mother/son dances.   The video turned out great and didn’t cost us a thing, other than a thank you gift for her.  

    Post # 12
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: August 2011

    I got a video, it’s really not that great. Honestly, H and I will probably never watch it again.

    I voted for the Honeymoon.

    Post # 13
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: November 2011

    I was against a videographer from the beginning. All of my married friends said I would regret it if I didn’t and then this post by Mrs. Giraffe made me really glad I had caved and hired a videographer  

    Why You Need to Hire a Videographer

    Is there some compromise you could reach to get both?

    Post # 14
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    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: February 2011

    Without a doubt I would choose the honeymoon! I think i was most excited about the honeymoon though. It was a beautiful week spent with my new husband relaxing and reminiscing about our wedding day together.

    Post # 15
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    I have never even considered getting a videographer; I can’t imagine we would watch our wedding video anyway. Eww I hate myself on camera haha. Def the honeymoon.

    Post # 16
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: December 2012

    I said videographer because I think it’s ok to wait for a honeymoon, maybe go on one for your one year. I added a videographer in our budget because I would love to be able to hear speeches again, have video of me walking down the aisle, and share it with our kids, and for some morbid reason I kept thinking if my Fiance ever died I would have our wedding video to watch over and over, I am an over thinker. I didn’t want to regret it because it’s not like you could do that over. And if you could always do a videographer and then some kind of small two day cabin stay or something….

    I know we will watch it though, we have many late nights drinking wine and listening to old music, we will totally bust out our wedding video! I 

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