(Closed) If you were 11 would this be lame???

posted 6 years ago in Parties
  • poll: You're 11, you're adorable and its your birthday! This is
    Amazing! : (88 votes)
    58 %
    Ok : (22 votes)
    14 %
    Lame : (39 votes)
    26 %
    Something I'll want to remember so I can pinpoint it for my therapist as an adult.... : (3 votes)
    2 %
  • Post # 3
    9681 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper

    @Nona99:  11 is grade 6 right? By that age, I wouldn’t have been into dressing up. I was “too cool” for any of that and wanted to be like my older siblings. However, it really depends on the kid. Some grow up a little slower and are still playing Barbies at that age (or whatever the toy is nowadays).

    Post # 4
    2362 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2013 - B&B

    I was a pretty big tomboy at 11, HOWEVER I had plenty of girly friends and even tomboy as I was I would have had a blast doing this with them!

    Post # 5
    11465 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: May 2009

    @Nona99:  It sounds totally fun and wonderful! What an amazing aunt you are! 🙂

    Having said that, my niece is nine-going-on-26.  About two years ago, she had already “outgrown” Justin Bieber and anything “cute” and wants to dress and act like a 16 year old. So, it’s possible this may be too young for your niece and her crowd. However, they all should at least love the hair and nail appointments and the food for sure!

    Post # 6
    659 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    I think this would be more popular up to the age of 9 or so. I feel like by the time I was a 11 I was a preteen and too “cool” for stuff like that. 

    But it totally depends on the group of girls. They may like it, you could mention it in passing to your niece and see if she seems to think it’s cool or lame? 

    Post # 7
    1060 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    I actually did do that for my 10th or 11th bday. I had 5 friends with me and it was a lot of fun!!!  All of us girls loved it and looking back now, our makeup was hideous (brown lipstick anyone?) and our hair was very 1990’s prom but it was such a blast at the time!

    Post # 8
    3942 posts
    Honey bee

    i kind of want to do that now….at age 29.

    But age 11 started the “too cool” years for me and I don’t think I would have been into it.

    Post # 9
    1245 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    My daughter is 11 and while she and her friends would have liked something like this a few years ago (maybe up until age 9 because I remember her going to a party like it at that age) I think she would have rolled her eyes at me at age 11 if I suggested something like that.


    A popular party idea with my daughter’s friends is a spa day, where the girls get manis and pedis, sometimes their hair done.  Sleepovers are very popular as well (and usually cheaper too!).  My daughter is very much a tomboy so her and her friends love to do laser tag and paint ball as well.

    Edited to add my daughter went to a cooking party last year and had a blast.

    Post # 10
    10363 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2010

    Why don’t you ask her? That way if she’s into it, she gets to look foraward to it, but if she’s not, at least she gets to tell you privately instead of having all her invited friends give her flack for it. I think the hair/makeup/nails is awesome, i’m unsure about the dress-up/runway. What about just doing the first part?

    Post # 11
    2531 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: March 2014

    Uhm, I’m 26 and this sounds cool now.

    I think when I was about 11, I had a big group cooking party at King’s Supermarket. It was OK, but I was pressured into inviting girls I didn’t like and they were awful.

    Two things:
    How about you casually run it by her next time you see her? Not ask directly, but try to find out what she’s interested in lately. If it’s basketball, you’re out of luck.

    And call the place and ask their average age group. Do they have 11-year-olds frequently? might be good to ask.

    Post # 12
    2195 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: August 2017

    That sounds amazing!  But.. it depends on the type of 11 year old. I think the getting hair/nails/etc done would be awesome, and the photoshoot. But I don’t know about the dresses and tiaras. Is she still into princessey stuff?

    I have a 12 year old neice who loves: dancing, fashion, One direction, concerts, and anything deemed “Teenager”.

    So instead of big dresses maybe they could decorate their own t shirts, make bracelets, something like that?

    Post # 13
    802 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    yeah my son is 11 and i dont see that age as the “dress up” kind. i think they would appreciate it but at that age everything is lame to them lol. i could see it being cute for a 7 or 8 year old. i think it would be more fun for them to go to the movies and have a sleepover and do a sundae factory at your house where they can put all the toppings on their ice cream. or maybe ice skating if thats in your area. im a november baby so im used to boring winter birthdays lol

    Post # 14
    6741 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: June 2014

    @crayfish:  +1 about asking if she likes it

    I think it sounds amazeballs and I would totally do this right now. But, I have no idea if an 11 year old might be a bit old for it?

    Post # 15
    7646 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2012

    @Nona99:  I would have enjoyed that. If she is into dresses she may appreciate this. At 25 I would love to do this, lol.

    Post # 16
    526 posts
    Busy bee

    I think the hair and makeup part is a hit at any age, if they aren’t into the dress up part, then they can just hang out right? I think its a great gift

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