(Closed) If you were a bridesmaid would you expect the bride pay for your hair to be done

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
  • poll: Would you care if the bride did not pay for you to get your hair done?
    Yes, the bride should pay to have all of her bms hair done, regardless of whether she expects it : (2 votes)
    5 %
    No, the bride need not pay to have the bms hair done unless she requires that they have an updo : (42 votes)
    95 %
  • Post # 3
    7587 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: December 2010

    Either way I always expect to pay for my hair. If the bride pays for it, it’s just a bonus.

    Post # 4
    1474 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: November 2011

    All my BMs have generally straight hair. I told them to have it straightened & half up (not fancy half up, just regular). They don’t seem to mind. 🙂

    Post # 5
    8738 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2011

    @jackndiane: As long as you aren’t requiring them to have their hair done, there is no reason for you to feel obligated to pay for them to get their hair done too.

    Post # 6
    1473 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    Absolutely not!! I was in my cousins wedding this past weekend, he and his fiance (now wife) did not pay for our hair but then they also said that we could do whatever we wanted with it, including leaving it down. I would never expect any bride to do that. I’ve been in 6 weddings the past 4 years and the bride never paid for our hair. I know it is not in my budget to pay for my 6 bridemaids to get their hair done.

    Post # 8
    1566 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    If you insist on bridesmaids wearing their hair a certain way….then maybe you should consider paying…. But since you are not…don’t worry about it.  It should not be awkward for you at all to be getting your hair done professionally….YOU are the bride!!! Smile

    Post # 9
    1963 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: January 2013

    @mwitter80: This! The last wedding I was in I budgetted it in for me to get all that stuff done for myself, and then bride’s mom gifted it to all of us! So sweet!! But also unnescessary!

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