(Closed) If you were a bridesmaid… would you like

posted 4 years ago in Bridesmaids
  • poll: Would you like a massage, mani and padi as a gift ?
    Yey! : (66 votes)
    90 %
    Nay! : (6 votes)
    8 %
    Explain : (1 votes)
    1 %
  • Post # 3
    4525 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    @Lulume:  I like the spa/mani/pedi idea *IF* it is a certificate not to be used the day or your wedding. Like something they can actually take home. I’m of the school of thought that anything that goes into your wedding day/look does not constitute a gift…but there are many that will disagree.


    So: if it’s all the day of your wedding, I’d appreciate it but, no, I wouldnt be over the moon about it. A certificate to take home and use at my leisure, hell yeah!


    Post # 4
    1880 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: April 2013

    I think that sounds awesome!

    Post # 5
    3004 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: April 2014

    ummmmm for sure, much better than crappy jewelry I am supposed to wear to your wedding (sorry bees!)

    Post # 6
    45627 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    Absolutely! the gift certificate should be available for them to use at the time of their choosing.

    Post # 7
    245 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    Agree with above. I would give them all a card and write something personal in it, and include the gift certifercate with it. You can say now that it’s all over, I want to share a special spa day with you!

    Post # 8
    2144 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: October 2015

    I feel super awkward getting spa treatments like that done, but I might be the only person. If you know your bridesmaids like to do that then I think it’s a good gift. 

    Post # 9
    2775 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: April 2010

    @badabing88:  +1

    I would love this, if it was for me to use at my leisure. 

    Post # 12
    1506 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2014

    Can I be your bridesmaid?

    Post # 13
    111 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    @Lulume:  Love it! I’ve been a bridesmaid many times, and the only thing I’ve ever received was jewelery to wear the day of, and one time, I got earrings to wear the day of plus a jewelery box that had my name, the word “bridesmaid” and the bride’s wedding date on it.

    Not bad, but ehhh. Your gift idea is actually something FOR THE GIRLS — not all about the wedding, so I think it will be appreciated.

    I’ve been contemplating what to do for my bridesmaids come October, and I just might have to copy you on this!

    Post # 14
    11284 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: April 2012

    @Lulume:  i would like that as a gift.  i would this that is very generous.  you know your girls, is this something they would appreciate?

    Post # 15
    4528 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: April 2015

    That would be awesome! 

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