(Closed) If your co-worker (or friend) was trying to lose weight…

posted 5 years ago in Fitness
Post # 3
Member
2103 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

No, you’re not ultra-sensitive. That person is an ass-fedora.

Post # 4
Member
3941 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I would NEVER EVER EVER say that to anyone.

What an ass!!

Post # 5
Member
4929 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2018

Well that was rude of them! 

It’s only been a month. It takes like 8-12 weeks for most other people to be able to notice changes. If YOU notice a change, it’s obviously working.

Post # 6
Member
7173 posts
Busy Beekeeper

What a DOUCHE!

I can’t believe someone said that to you!

That is just mean.

This may sound nuts – but I honestly believe there are personalities that sabatoge the progress of others.  This person seems to fit the bill to a T.

Congrats on making a lifestyle change!  And 10 pounds and inches is a BIG DEAL!!!!  

Ugh – I’m so mad at your co-worker right now!

Post # 7
Member
2553 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@LadyLuna711:  I’ve learned that when it comes to weight loss and fitness, some people just dont always say the right things. I notice it the most with girls who are jealous actually, so maybe she was a little envious? I lost 40 pounds and am probably 10lbs away from being overweight and she had the nerve to tell me I looked sick and needed to eat more. To be considered underweight I would need to lose 30 more lbs and even my doctor was proud of me. And she tells me I dont look healthy and the photographer wont be able to see me because I’m too thin. But, she is 50lbs overweight right now and trying to lose it so I just let it go, shes probably jealous.

Post # 8
Member
2553 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@missrobots:  lol i love your choice of words! ass-fedora. haha

Post # 11
Member
4272 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

Well that was rude.

Post # 12
Member
7211 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2015

@missrobots:  “ass fedora” is my favorite thing I’ve ever read.

and yeah… STFU coworker! Who says that?

Post # 13
Member
2103 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

It’s like an ass-hat, but extra douchey!

Post # 14
Member
870 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

No, I would not have said “I didn’t notice.”  The polite thing to say, whether you notice a difference or not, is “Congrats!”  or something along those lines.

On that note, congrats on your weight loss.  She probably just lacks tact.

Post # 15
Member
7173 posts
Busy Beekeeper

@LadyLuna711:  reading your update – she most certainly sounds like she’s an unbalanced person.  I know someone like that – everything that comes out of her mouth is negative.  It became kind of a game to me.  I think some people are just like that.  I feel sad for them.  Hang in there and steer clear of the crazy!

Post # 16
Member
1839 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

nope, never in a million years would i say that.

The topic ‘If your co-worker (or friend) was trying to lose weight…’ is closed to new replies.

Find Amazing Vendors