(Closed) if your man drives a hot car, does he let you drive it?

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: does your SO let you drive his sports car?
    yes : (35 votes)
    78 %
    sometimes : (4 votes)
    9 %
    only with him in the passenger seat : (4 votes)
    9 %
    never : (2 votes)
    4 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    7771 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2010

    I was the one with the sports car.  I am a better driver than Darling Husband and I let him drive my mustang, but it was like crack for him so… now we have a safe suv for him ๐Ÿ™‚  He would speed, ride my clutch, and got into an accident ๐Ÿ™‚

    All of our material things are shared (and non-material).

    Post # 4
    Member
    1729 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    WHY HAVEN’T YOU LEFT THIS GUY??

     

    (if anyone is confused, PLEASE read her previous threads, especially the “boyfriend says I’m overly… series. Yes, there is a series of them.)

    Post # 6
    Member
    3871 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    The Darling Husband has an Chevy Impala SS, it’s bright blue.  It’s not like a corvette but it’s definitely more sporty than my honda accord and also it also more sporty than the regular Chevy Impalas.  Yup, he lets me drive it.  I don’t like driving it because it’s too much power for me, and its too flashy for me.  Oh, it’s also feels like I’m driving a boat. But, yeah, he lets me. I kinda have to drive it if my car is in the shop.

    Post # 7
    Member
    1729 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    OMG. You HAVE to be smarter than this. Go back and re-read what you wrote in those threads!!

    I really, really hope I have the willpower to never respond to another post of yours again. I wish you well.

    Post # 8
    Member
    1253 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    Years ago before we got engaged, when my Fiance was 20 and I was 19 he bought a mitsubishi eclipse. And because he worked days and I worked the evening shift, I drove his car EVERYWHERE. all the time.

    Post # 9
    Member
    2091 posts
    Buzzing bee

    I would be very sketched out if my guy didn’t let me drive his car. That crosses a line, in my opinion. It would be like he didn’t see me as being good enough to drive it, or that I’m not “worthy” of sharing his car with him, ya know? Also, it screams of sexism to me. That whole “women can’t drive” sterotype. 

    I may be reading too much into the situation… but I don’t really think so.

    Post # 10
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    2459 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: November 2010

    Sweets I just re read all your threads…..particularly where u said u have been in abusive rels b4 and have confidence issues….this guy is a twat and you are too good for him! Dont let him make you feel like the concerns you have with him are silly. Every post u have put on WB is about trying to justify his poor behaviour, please cant you see the pattern.

    I know I seem harsh, but I don’t want you to be unhappy because of a guy like that!

    Post # 11
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    1253 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    @Gingersnap: I agree with you. It’s a trust thing. While driving my bf’s car, I ALMOST got into an accident and decided I better tell him. Obviously, he was more concerned with my safety than the car, because one of those two things isn’t replaceable. And besides, he always said the car looked hotter with me behind the wheel ๐Ÿ˜‰

    Post # 15
    Member
    2091 posts
    Buzzing bee

    @Impatiently waiting: I totally get rough patches, Fiance and I went through a short one ourselves not too long ago. But I think you should go back and read through your old threads.

    “thanx for the input guys. i really appreciate it. ya, he treats me like he’s my father, or like my personality is completely flawed…. it’s NOT good. and every fight or tift includes him talking negatively about his opinion of “how women are” he hid all of this from me quit well until we moved in together. now i feel like he’s showing me he’s not who he made me think he was before. he’s angry judgmental and has a mean temper. and thinks almost everything i do is wrong =-( i just wish i knew all this sooner. now we’re like a year and a half in. i’m so sad and disappointed. once again i find a guy who’s abusive again. emotional abuse is just as bad as physical abuse abuse if you ask me. (and i’ve been through it all so i do have something to compare) any way thanx. now i just need to work on getting out. which is going to be really hard….”

    You wrote that 3 weeks ago. Just wanted to remind you of how you were feeling back then. If you are truely happy now, than more power to you and I wish you the best of luck. 

    Post # 16
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    86 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: June 2011

    We share everything. ๐Ÿ™‚

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