- 4 years ago
- Wedding: October 2015
Hi everyone, so I was wondering something. If you don’t live together but he’s over at your place at least 3-4 nights a week, do you expect him to help you clean?
I was talking to my BF this morning about how my roommate and I cleaned the kitchen and living room last night. I mentioned that I needed to clean my bedroom and bathroom at some point this weekend. Then it occurred to me. Should I ask him to help me clean my bathroom and bedroom? When he spends the night, he uses my shower, toilet and brushes his teeth at my bathroom sink. He does all the things that people do when they stay over.
He’s basically living with me part-time. He has his own drawer of clothes and shirts hanging in the closet. He has his own toothbruth, shampoo and other toiletries sitting on my bathroom sink.
Anyway, it’s not really a big deal for me to clean my bathroom and bedroom by myself. I’m just wondering if it is time for him to start helping me keep it clean. What do y’all do with your SOs? Does he help you keep your place clean or no? Why or why not?