(Closed) If your SO spends the night 3-4 nights a week…does he help clean?

posted 4 years ago in The Lounge
Post # 3
11760 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

No and I wouldn’t expect it unless he was an official roommate.


Post # 4
8044 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2013

@LadyBlackheart:  I am not sure about asking him to clean those things… but I would definitely expect that he keeps his stuff tidy, does his own laundry… and that if you cook something together he helps to clean up.

Before my SO and I lived together he definitely helped clean the kitchen and so on.

Post # 5
405 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

Before we lived together I helped him clean. The way I saw it, I could go do something by myself for a few hours while he cleaned, or I could help him clean so that we would be done sooner and have more time to hang out. I also helped cook and clean up the kitchen/dishes after cooking whenever I was over because it seemed like the reasonable thing to do.

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