(Closed) If You're a Waiting Bee Like Me, DEFINITELY Read This Article!

posted 8 years ago in Waiting
Post # 4
340 posts
Helper bee

Thank you! You don’t even know how bad I needed this today. What a great touching article!!

Post # 6
4 posts

Those last few lines…awesome! Just what we need to hear sometimes, from him or even other people. Thanks, I’m bookmarking it as well!

Post # 7
3337 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

I saw this posted a while ago and bookmarked it. It’s a GREAT article!

Post # 8
1979 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

<3 LOVE it!! I will definitely re-read it when I am having a bad waiting day. I feel like it does a good job of capturing the waiting experience. SO doesnt understand waiting… Would it be weird to make SO read it? I guess that would break the shut it up pact :/ 

Also I really hope all that resentment and frustration go away the moment he proposes.  A lot of bees say that’s what happened to them, but it is one of my greatest fears that it won’t go away and I’ll always think he should have done it sooner.  SO has also communicated the same fear – that I will resent him forever for making me wait (I was really open about how terrible waiting made me feel- and looking back I’m not sure that total honesty is the best policy in this situation).  I hope this article is right about that!!

Post # 9
178 posts
Blushing bee

I love this, I needed it today. Every day SO tells me to be patient, even if I don’t bring it up. It gets frustrating as hell.  I can tell he’s excited to do this, but its still so hard to be waiting! 

Post # 10
3418 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2014 - Manhattan Church Rec Center

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@LiliKitty:  +1

Post # 11
49 posts

great article…i cried…but im very emotional today to begin with


Post # 12
278 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

Thanks for posting the article…needed to read it today!


Post # 13
1404 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

He’s listening and he hears you. He knows what you want, and he loves you, and he’s working to give it to you. And more importantly, in case you don’t already know, he wants to marry you. It sometimes just takes time to get there.

Lightbulb moment when I read this!

Post # 16
1935 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

I got teary-eyed at the  “please wait for me” part. As I lay on the couch, boyfriend sleeping at the end, I know I’d wait forever.

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