(Closed) If You're a Waiting Bee Like Me, DEFINITELY Read This Article!

posted 8 years ago in Waiting
Post # 17
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Helper bee

Love the article. I really can use a good/postive pick me up such as this one. I believe that he’s planning, so I just need to keep telling myself he’s planning and on his way to doing it.  It might take a bit longer than I expected but it will happen. I need to remind myself that I saw those books on buying rings and I saw a piece of paper that had ring as the number one thing and then proposal idea as the number 2 thing. He usually doesnt’ write things down on paper unless he’s planning on doing things. That’s his way of sorting things out in his head.

But here’s my crazy brain thinking that he put those things in his desk as a prop, knowing I would snoop so I can just be quiet and not pressure him.

Post # 18
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013 - Rocky Mountains USA

I can totally relate to this.  It took us, um, TWELVE years to get engaged.  (Mind you, I didn’t particularly want to be engaged / married until about eleven years in.)  My sweet and perfect, but somewhat anxiety-ridden and committment-shy, boyfriend is now my fiance who can’t wait to marry me.

Post # 19
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2018

It’s a totally sweet artcle.  But I do indeed feel like a second-class citizen so I am still bitter.  Knowing it will come doesn’t always help haha.

Post # 23
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

Love it!

Post # 25
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Worker bee

Gosh, I love this!  That’s exactly what my FH and I are doing, yet nobody (including my college roommate) understands that! Just perfect!

Post # 26
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

Hmmm…. not sure if I totally agree, its person by person I suppose. 

A lot to think about though. 

Post # 27
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Worker bee

Great article!

 

I might need to read the last paragraph of that article every day between now and whenever-the-heck I get engaged…  

Post # 28
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Worker bee

Beautiful article!

Post # 29
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Wannabee

Thank you so much for posting this article. This helps me so much and I will continue to read it as I need it.

Post # 31
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Bumble bee

I think this article works if someone still needs time to get things ready, like guys who are trying to figure out the financial part of things. If someone has all their metaphorical ducks lined up, then it’s a little harder to get what there is to wait for. Though maybe he is just waiting for the pressure to lay off, I don’t know. Oh well, here’s to keeping quiet in the mean time, and laying off the pressure front.

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