If you're not happy with me, then maybe we should just end things altogether!

posted 2 years ago in Relationships
Post # 2
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: July 2018

exis001 :  He said he doesn’t think you are marriage material, why the hell would you still want to marry him after that?!

Also he has a very low opinion of women.

but marriage these days is nothing but relationship insurance for women

Charming.

Post # 3
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Buzzing bee

He doesnt want to marry you and he isnt going to come around any time soon either. He told you that you are not marraige material. The past few years have been good because you were in a relationship that didnt require a future. Because you are looking for a future things have changed. Its not what he wants. Your best bet is to leave and find someone else. He sounds like a tool anyways (no offense).

Post # 4
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Sugar bee

End it and find someone who actually WANTS to get married.

He sounds like real prince.

 

Post # 5
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Busy bee

If he said that, I’d be, “sure, let’s end things. I want to be happy, and I want you to be happy too too but I don’t want you to not be happy just for my sake” just to see his reaction and call his bluff. I don’t want to be beg men to be with me anyway. The right one should want to be with you.

To answer your question, I would be out, he is very clear he doesn’t want to get married.

Post # 6
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Bumble Beekeeper

He sure thinks he’s the grand prize eh?

I know this must be hard to hear, but at least he isn’t beating around the bush or giving you false promises. This man does not believe you are worthy of his hand in marriage. He is not sure you’re good enough.

You are good enough though. So dump his ass and go find someone who values you.

Post # 7
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Honey bee

He doesn’t want to marry you.

He told you.

Believe him.

Not only did he tell you he doesn’t want to marry you, but he did it in a condescending way that belittles you, your beliefs, and your relationship and then gaslighted you into making you be the one to have to end it so he has zero culpability in this.  Even if you were otherwise previously content, why would you stick around for more of this?  I wouldn’t.  I don’t have time for immature blowhards.

Post # 8
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

exis001 :  What he said must have been painful to hear.  

How he said it is revealing of his character – and it doesn’t paint a pretty picture.  

Please think carefully before waiting any longer for this condescending egomaniac to check out the entire female popluation before deciding you might be ok after all.   Sorry if that is harsh but I dated someone just like that years ago – and felt SO much better about myself when I finally saw him for what he was and dumped him.  

Post # 9
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2015

He is not marriage material, even if he wanted to get married. I pity the woman he does marry.

Run, bee. Run. 

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2017

exis001 :  It sounds like he doesn’t trust you with money.

Post # 11
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Bee Keeper

zzar45 :  “He has a very low opinion of women….Charming”

mama2bee71 :  “He told you that you are not marriage material….He sounds like a tool anyways”

arosebyanyothername :  “He sounds like a real prince”

lleello :  “I don’t want to be beg men to be with me anyway. The right one should want to be with you.”

tiffanybruiser :  “He sure thinks he’s the grand prize eh?….This man does not believe you are worthy of his hand in marriage. He is not sure you’re good enough.You are good enough though. So dump his ass and go find someone who values you.”

annabananabee :  “Not only did he tell you he doesn’t want to marry you, but he did it in a condescending way that belittles you, your beliefs, and your relationship and then gaslighted you into making you be the one to have to end it so he has zero culpability in this”

Astra :  “How he said it is revealing of his character – and it doesn’t paint a pretty picture. …Please think carefully before waiting any longer for this condescending egomaniac to check out the entire female popluation before deciding you might be ok after all. “

+1 to all of the above. This guy is disgusting, his opinion of himself is as high as his opinion of women is low, he doesn’t sound like a good boyfriend nevermind potential life partner material. Scrape this POS from the bottom of your shoe, he’s not worth another minute of your time. 

Post # 12
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2016

It sounds like maybe he makes more money than you? And that’s not a problem, for most people. However, a relationship with him is not going to lead to marriage. Because he thinks money is more than important than relationships. If I were you, I would just break up with him and find someone else.

Post # 13
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205 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

He sounds arrogant AF. And its definitely misplaced. You deserve far, far far better. 

Post # 14
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2017

Ew, drop him immediately.  You can most definitely find someone more compatible, more loving and more respectful of you.

Post # 15
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 2009 - New York, NY

He doesn’t want to marry you, which is a good thing, because he’s a dud.  Run for the hills bee.

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