(Closed) "I'll order the *** [email protected]** dress but after the wedding, I am done"- A BM Story

posted 5 years ago in Bridesmaids
  • poll: What should I have for dinner tonight:

    Have a glass of wine

    Have two glasses of wine

  • Post # 2
    93 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: March 2016

    Sounds like BMX needs to go. Sounds like she was being a childish little b*tch. And you can absolutely pick your BMs hair style. she should have respected the “i want you to wear your hair up”. Its not like you gave her a specific updo. I am already married but my wedding isnt until April 2017 and you best believe my Maid/Matron of Honor and Bridesmaid will have their hair up as mine will be down.

    Don’t take anymore flack from BMX. 

    Happy planning and congratulations! ๐Ÿ™‚

    Post # 3
    224 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2016

    Wait! You didn’t finish the story. What was your response after she said she will buy the god damn dress but then be done with you after the wedding?

    Post # 6
    1714 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2018

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    throwaway9404:  I think you’re awesome. sorry for your suffering but this was a hilarious read! 

    Obviously BMX: way immature

    obviously you: cool-ass bride

    obviously: methinks  not a huge loss friendship-wise. 


    p.s best poll ever


    Post # 7
    1124 posts
    Bumble bee

    This is why we had no wedding party ๐Ÿ™‚ I truly don’t understand the point of them. To make certain friends feel more special than others?


    Anyway! Be glad she will be gone from your life! That is not someone you need around, obviously!

    Post # 10
    2027 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: August 2015

    I definitely asked my girls to style their hair in a specific way… Romantic, loose, not elaborate or tight updos, no unnatural colours. Also the dresses we picked were about $180 plus taxes and alterations…

    Post # 11
    2111 posts
    Buzzing bee

    Way too much drama, don’t have her as a bridesmaid. 

    You want people there with you on the day who have your back 150%, not people who are more concerned with pointless drama. 

    Weddings bring out the worst in people, I have no idea why. Just shake it off and have a glass of wine or two. 

    Post # 12
    1041 posts
    Bumble bee

    Holy crap. Live and learn right? 

    Post # 13
    146 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: June 2016

    I I thought my BM/FSIL was drama! Holy crap bee! Is honestly just ignore it all. You giving her your attention caters to her whims, which is what she wants. Best piece of advice I got. 

    Post # 14
    1990 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: May 2016 - Sussex, UK

    I’m happy I only have two BMs! Even with the two I have and 3 weeks out pregnant bridesmaid said she feels frumpy in her dress (she looks great) and as it is too long she was getting it altered 2 months ago or so I thought. She just told me she hasn’t had it done and can I find someone to do it. I paid fir their dresses and shoes.

    I’m paying for hair and Maid/Matron of Honor will have hair up like I said was my preference but Bridesmaid or Best Man wants her hair done and wavy and will do it herself even though my hair will be the same style. I asked if she’d just come and get it out up by stylist. Nope she wants it down. I have kind of given up caring at this point!

    I’ve only lost one friendship over the wedding from a guest whose kids wasn’t invited so I count myself lucky compared to you! 

    Post # 15
    1430 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2016

    I need a glass of wine after reading this. Sound advice from your learning. I really hope you get a resolution.

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