(Closed) "I'll order the *** [email protected]** dress but after the wedding, I am done"- A BM Story

posted 5 years ago in Bridesmaids
  • poll: What should I have for dinner tonight:

    Have a glass of wine

    Have two glasses of wine

  • Post # 39
    3606 posts
    Sugar bee

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    throwaway9404:  I just have to ask why this is even a question. Have two glasses, obviously. Have the whole fucking bottle if you want, because wedding planning sucks sometimes. 😉

    Post # 40
    1645 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: January 2016

    Oh, honey, this is well beyond wine! You need other options on the poll- chocolate martinis, pitchers of margaritas, etc.!!

    Very sorry that you are dealing with this. On the bright side of things, you just lost some dead weight! I always feel like it’s better to know how people really feel and who they really are.

    for what it is worth, if someone told me while swearing that they would buy the dress, but we’re all done with me after the wedding, I’d be all done with them. You deserve to be treated better than that and she shouldn’t be in- or at- your wedding. Pour a drink, have a pint of ice cream, and cross her right off the list!

    Post # 41
    547 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: July 2015

    I answered your poll question before even reading your post because 2 glasses of wine over 1 will always be my answer in all situations. After reading the post, I agree with PPs: 2 bottles should suffice in your case.

    Post # 42
    1685 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: December 2016

    Bitches be cray. 

    I just asked my party a week ago and already got drama about the dress for my MOHs. Group texts back and forth for about 20 minutes… Though I have to admit, it made my stairclimber work out go by super fast. Luckily, I guess, only one will be giving me drama (my sis). Still have 9 months to go…. Fun times!

    Post # 43
    3529 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: December 2015

    Oh do NOT let her be in your wedding. Hell, if I were you, she would not be invited to be a guest at the wedding at this point. 

    I had two bridesmaids, my stepsisters. And my stepmom was very upfront about wrangling them for me if she needed to. I need to go thank her for that…

    Post # 44
    551 posts
    Busy bee

    PLEASE PLEASEEEE text her back and let her know she is no longer welcome in the wedding party after her immature words and actions. If she gets the dress now and still tries to be in the wedding, it’s going to be a really awkward time getting ready, etc. and you don’t need that on the big day! I’d say you need to make it clear to her that she has burned that bridge!


    You sound like a great bride and not demanding at all. This girl sucks. Period.

    And for the record, im going to sit here and have a glass of wine for you! Haha. 

    Post # 45
    9385 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2016

    yeah i’d definitely let her know you don’t want anyone who is “done iwth you” to be in your wedding. -_-‘

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