- 6 years ago
- Wedding: April 2013
Ok, my Fiance and I have been together 4 years, and he has been absolutely amazing. (my soul mate)…Our only issue has been his brothers girlfriend…where shall I begin? When he first introduced us she was very stand off-ish then many months later I received a email from her stating she didn’t like me because of some gossip she’d heard. So, I called her, we discussed whatever gossip she was concerned with, and everything was fine SO I THOUGHT. Within 6 months I began hearing my personal business at my job…never one to socialize, I figured out it was her spreading rummors about me at my JOB? Really? Since I had already attempted to reason with her before I just cut her off. We moved out of town and there was no contact for about a year. That’s when she became besties with his ex, then even went so far as to give his number to the ex! I snapped, finally told my Fiance all the issues I was having with her, he attempted to resolve it, while I just let it go. We moved back to town, she and I have been getting along fine at family gatherings, until we got engaged. Now she’s acting exactly as she had before. She invited his ex over and when he said he didn’t feel comfortable coming to visit if she was there she said it didn’t matter that’s her friend. I’m not bothered by their friendship I’m bothered by her blaten disrespect for his wishes and our relationship. What kind of woman attempts to break up their brother in laws relationship? As I said before, I keep to myself which has always kept me out of drama. I don’t know how to handle a person who lacks communication skills other than slapping them across the face, which I’d rather not do because she is his brother’s girlfriend of 12 years.