(Closed) “I’m 88% sure he’s the one”

posted 11 years ago in 30 Something
  • poll: How sure are you he's the one?

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  • Post # 17
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    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2010

    I didn’t vote.  I don’t think anyone is really “the one.”  What I mean to say is, you never can be sure.  I think that would be unrealistic.  He is the one I want to WORK at a relationship with, and commit to, because he feels right and he is right right now.  There is never any guarantee.  I think understanding that keeps me appreciating what we have, and working at it.

    Post # 18
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    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: February 2011

    I don’t believe in The One either. I think love + timing + work = an awesome marriage. 

    Post # 19
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    1332 posts
    Bumble bee

    I don’t believe there is one either, or else why would we meet other people when we break up?!  Doesn’t make any sense to me at least Laughing

    Post # 20
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    2475 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: June 2010

    Right now, I’m 100% sure he’s the one.  But I’m not a mind-reader or psychic… so I don’t know what will happen in the future.  People and things change, and I totally understand that… so who know what will happen.  But I sure HOPE we stay 100% in love forever.  🙂

    Post # 21
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: June 2010

    I don’t believe in “the one” either, but I still voted 100% because I have absolutely no doubt that he is the man I WANT to be with for the rest of my life.

    Post # 22
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    Newbee
    • Wedding: February 2011

    i am so sure he is the one i get tears in my eye when i think a bout it he is the one .ps we been together for 4years we getting maregge feb2011

    Post # 23
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    Newbee
    • Wedding: September 2010

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    @mountain.bride: I agree with you. I don’t think you are settling at all.  I also believe there may be another “one” for us, but when we are lucky enough to find one of them we must embrace it…. one of the others may never come along, and even if he did, I will have already invested time and emotion with this one and I will love him even more that day than the day we married. I do believe love (with the right one) grows through time and life experiences with them.

    Post # 24
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    1279 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    i’ve been 100% sure since about one month into our relationship. which isn’t to say that i’ve had some brief moments of doubt in the 4+ years we’ve been dating. but my gut just told me he was it. we’ve grown and changed quite a bit – met in our mid 20s and are now entering our 30s – but i think its only been for the better!

    Post # 25
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    185 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: October 2010

    It took me 41 years to find him. I was perfectly happy living my days out alone. I am 100% certain he is the one.

    Post # 26
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    151 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: January 2011

    Thank God I don’t believe in “the One” or I would have never met my fiancee.  He is 6 years younger than I am and I would have immediately stayed away from him if I was preoocipied looking for “the one” to marry.  We are perfect for each other NOW. In 10 years our feelings may be different but we will hope and try our best to keep it up. meanwhile I agree with all the ladies who say when he is sweet it’s 100% and when he annoys me it’s down to 70%.

    Post # 27
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    878 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    I don’t believe in a “the one” either in terms of the only person out there who I would be compatable with. But I am 100% sure that I am happy with my Fiance and can’t see past him for anyone else.  Even though we have problems (who doesn’t) he is the one I want to sit with and talk openly with to work those problems out.  He is everything I am looking for, and I accept him flaws and all.

    Post # 28
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    168 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    I don’t believe in “the one”, but I do believe that J and I are compatible, we love and care for each other, and I can see myself building a life with him and spending my days with him as my partner.  What more can you ask for?

    Post # 29
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    1317 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2010

    I’m 100% sure he is thee one for me!

    Post # 30
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    6593 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: August 2010

    I don’t believe in the ‘one’ I believe that there are many people that I could be compatible.

    Am I 100% sure he is the person that I want to spend the rest of my life with – yes!

    Post # 31
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: November 2010

    I dont believe in the one either, just seems silly and another one of the movie things that people try to make real.

    I know I love being with him (most of the time :P) we ballance each other out, I can really be myself with him. He makes me laugh and we drive each other crazy! and right now I couldnt imagine being with anyone else. to me thats all that matters.

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