I'm a bad person and jealous

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
Post # 17
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127 posts
Blushing bee

It’s 100% normal to be jealous from time to time. Doesn’t make anyone bad people. Lots of people like to nitpick others based on totally normal human emotions, don’t read too far into it. 

Post # 20
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40 posts
Newbee

I think you know all of this already….

It’s not bad to feel envy, it’s what you do with that feeling that is important. Try to remember you friend is probably envious elements of your life too. Also remember that her getting that ring isn’t what stopped you from getting it. Then remember all the things you love about her. 

 

Post # 24
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232 posts
Helper bee

Meganquita :  who has the better diamond? settings go in and out of style. Plus Tacori is for the masses. It’s not like it’s Harry Winston

Post # 27
Member
315 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2018

I’m sorry bee, I can understand the feeling you are experiencing but you are not being the best friend by basically saying you work harder and deserve more just because you both do things differently financially. She is not paying for the ring, her fiance is. Who cares if he put it on a card. Who cares if it will take awhile to pay it off. Everyone does things how they want, it is their life, their decision, and their choice. It does not matter what financial situation she is in, it does not directly affect you and your finances. Some people’s parents pay for their wedding, my Fiance and I are paying for it on my own but that doesn’t mean I am less excited to attend my friends weddings who’s parents are paying for theirs. You should be thankful for what you have instead of worrying about what others have that you do not. You are about to have a house of your own, an amazing wedding, and you get to be with the man you love for a lifetime! What could be better?

Post # 29
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315 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2018

Meganquita :  I understand and I never said you are a bad person. All of those selfless things you do will pay off one day. If they want to put themselves in debt then that is their choice. It is a bad choice however, and all of the decisions you and your fiance are making right now will only better your future. You have the man you love and that is what matters most. Material things are just petty and truly don’t matter in the end. It is what you do for others, which like you said, you do a lot! 

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