I'm a b***h for declining a wedding invite…

posted 3 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 46
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4027 posts
Honey bee

People….are terrible. You do not have to justify anything, you declined for whatever reason you chose to decline and that should have been the end of it. It sucks that this woman is okay with ruining all of your friendships over some petty crap. My future SIL just kicked a bridesmaid out of her wedding, because the bridesmaid declined the destination bachelorette party. Again, people are terrible.

I am so very sorry for the loss of your dad. True friends would’ve surrounded you with love during this time, not this crap. Hugs.

Post # 47
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3875 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

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knickergold :  Sorry, how is their reason (videographer ran off with money) any better than your reason (traumatic loss)??? If anyone is being the vindictive bitch, it’s DH’s friend’s wife. 

At this point, for me, there would be no coming back from this. I might shoot her an e-mail if I felt utterly compelled to tell her off, but otherwise, I’d just let this friendship fizzle out. I find it rather telling that this friend is letting his wife 100% dictate if you guys hang out or not and is completely disrespecting the outstanding friendship of her husband and friend.

Post # 48
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2017

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knickergold :  I’m so sorry for your loss. I lost my Dad 2 months before my wedding. It’s been 4 months now since he passed. 

That bitch can seriously F herself. She has no right to make you feel that way.

Don’t waste anymore time and energy on her. You have bigger things to worry about. 

Post # 49
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191 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2018

Yeah fuck her. Am I allowed to use that word on here? Either way, she is heartless and insensitive and incredibly self absorbed if she sees you declination as a slight to her in any way. 

She sounds like drama and her husband doesn’t seem like much more of a prize either. If it were me and my SO, I’d drop them like a hot potato and not reach out to them ever again. FFS you sent a nice gift and card, where’s the graciousness? 

Post # 50
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Newbee
  • Wedding: May 2018

I’m sorry for your loss. That woman sounds awful. YOU HAD AN EMERGENCY. What is wrong with people?

 

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