(Closed) I'm a control freak, he wants it to be a surprise. I'm going bananas.

posted 4 years ago in Waiting
Post # 2
Member
13 posts
Newbee

I’m feeling the exact same way! Ahh

Post # 3
Member
184 posts
Blushing bee

I’m completely with you on this! I know it’s coming soon and I told myself to just stay calm and let it happen but I’m going nuts over here over analyzing everything looking for clues! Lol

Post # 4
Member
22 posts
Newbee

Get a hobby. 

Post # 5
Member
54 posts
Worker bee

I feel like I am going insane. I’m a control freak too and I can’t stand this being out of my control!!! 🙃

Post # 6
Member
51 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: November 2017

Same same same. It’s so hard not to ask questions. For now I am just doing my nails every few days and trying to look as cute as possible when I leave the house LOL 

Post # 8
Member
236 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

A secret pinterest board for wedding planning 

Post # 9
Member
73 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2017

I feel the same way!! I’m the planner out of the two of us and it’s driving me crazy! Going to the gym helps me. Not only do I get to expend some energy, but it makes feel better knowing I’m going to look great when it happens! 😃

Post # 10
Member
23 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: October 2016

Haha this is exactly how I was feeling!! I just got engaged a couple weeks ago. He wanted to pick out the ring and surprise me, so I gave him some pictures of what I like around Thangsiving last year. 

Fast forward to beginning of May…haven’t heard a peep, and I had stopped talking about getting married shortly after I gave him the “ring guide” so I didn’t annoy him. I really had just kind of given up, I figured I’d have to start prodding him a little. We went to dinner at one point and I had a couple of glasses of wine and I was like “So….when do you think we will get married??” and he said “Sheesh, the sooner the better.” I was speechless, haha. Um, ok, I am waiting on you buddy! Ha.

Anyways he surprised the heck out of me with our engagement. I really just tried to STOP thinking about it, and eventually was able to. On his side, he said he just needed time to emotionally prepare for it, so hadn’t really started looking till February and had the ring a few weeks before he proposed. It’ll happen!! And it’ll be so awesome because it will be unexpected. 🙂

Post # 11
Member
3008 posts
Sugar bee

I am the same way! I act like it doesn’t bother me but I really really just want to know where he hides the ring! haha. But I have been on Pinterest a lot lately and looking at blogs and things to stay excited but also look forward to the proposal. Keep us updated!!

The topic ‘I'm a control freak, he wants it to be a surprise. I'm going bananas.’ is closed to new replies.

Find Amazing Vendors