(Closed) I'm a selfish B

posted 4 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
4699 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

It doesn’t sound to me like you’re being selfish at all. It sounds like you’re worried about them, and dissapointed with the situation in general. I think that’s pretty normal. If your only concern was how it effects your wedding, maybe that would be a bit selfish, but to me it doesn’t sound like that at all. I’m sorry all this is happening, and I hope they get better soon. Don’t be so hard on yourself though. 🙂

Post # 4
4525 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@MrsBeck:  You don’t sound selfish to me either: it’s not like you’re saying “well grammy and my friend should STILL make it, monitors and IVs still attached! It’s MY day!”……..which sounds like something I could see being said on here :-p

I think your reaction is normal, and I’m sorry those folks won’t be able to make it to your wedding 🙁 Maybe someone can snap a cell pic of the two of you waving or blowing a kiss and someone could send it to them so they know they are on your minds 🙂

Post # 5
26 posts
  • Wedding: July 2013

Oh lovey… Your arent being selfish with all the stress and pressure of a wedding its difficult to have things not go as planned. in the end it’s about You and your future husband. That’s all that’s required to show up. just give yourself some time to process or grieve that they won’t be there and things should get easier closer to the date. when your standing up there saying your vows you won’t be worried about who’s in attendance. *hugs* 

Post # 6
526 posts
Busy bee

HUGS!! that sounds awful.  i got a sense of calm a few days before my wedding, all I could think was as long as DH and the minister show up, I’m OK.  and truly nothing else really mattered. 

Post # 7
8701 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2013

I would feel the same way. When your day comes I think you will be just fine! Have you gone to visit your friend and the baby yet?

Post # 9
11760 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Aw you can’t let things out of your control overshadow your day. Things out of your control may even happen on your day (someone had a stroke at ours) so you have to mentally prepare yourself for that. Your day will be awesome regardless!

Post # 10
4528 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

Aw, I’m sorry. You are not selfish, you are just disappointed, and understandably so

Post # 11
9145 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 2013 - St. Augustine Beach, FL

It’s normal to be disappointed just remember you are disappointed with the situations and not the people.

Focus on who will be at your wedding and I promise you will still have fun at your wedding.

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