(Closed) I’m about to slap a B***H!!!

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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3162 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

Call her out on her BS. Seriously. That’s taking advantage. It is not your responsibility to pay for her or to rent out the friggin place. If anything she should be paying for you as a Bridesmaid or Best Man gift. She sounds like a real b***h. Don’t put her in your wedding.

Post # 4
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99 posts
Worker bee

Well, I don’t know much about what being a Bridesmaid or Best Man entails and what you’re expected to pay for, but I’d be pretty pissed too.

 

Sorry I can’t really give any useful advice! :/

Post # 5
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56 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

wow, that is SO not okay.  You have every right to be mad.

Post # 6
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690 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

I would tell her that you called the place to ask them questions about getting your hair done and that they gave you the correct price for getting your hair, nails and makeup done. And pay that. I wouldn’t pay the cost for her to get her stuff done and to rent the place. That is not your responsibility as part of the bridal party. This girl has some nerve!

Post # 7
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1221 posts
Bumble bee

I would never plan for my Bridesmaid to pay for MY hair, nails and make-up.

Their own maybe if i can’t afford it.. but mine too thats crazy you need to tell her shes crazy!

Post # 8
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2788 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

Oh, I would call her out on this also. Not necessarily in anger, but in a firm, no nonsence tone. Unbelievable that she would do that.

Post # 9
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2 posts
Wannabee
  • Wedding: February 2006

Hi I would tell her that u do not want to be in her wedding because u r there to support her but not finacially and u do not appreciate being treated that way and to find someone else! I got so mad at her when I read ur post and I don’t even know her or u

Post # 10
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1638 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I would call her out on it and say that it was really rude of her to include her spa crap without informing you that you would be paying. She should be paying for you if anything!

Post # 11
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2204 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Rent out a whole place?

Um hello, no.

Post # 12
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2821 posts
Sugar bee

Not cool. 

I’d either tell her you were checking the place out and they told you a different price…. and see what her response is…..if she tries to lie she’s basically stealing from you.

or I’d just say you know it would be fun to get your hair done together but you’d rather get it done someplace else and you’ll meet her there for her appointment.

 

I’m trying to get over something like this, just as a guest in a wedding I was thrown a huge last minute cost (like a 500 cost).  Even though I sucked it up I feel like a biatch because neither one of us has talked about it and I haven’t been able to get over it because I feel like I can’t trust her though I think some girls just get bride brain really bad because she’s sort of a nice person.  

Post # 13
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690 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

A friend of mine is a bridesmaid in a wedding and the bride told the entire wedding party (guys and girls) that for a wedding shower present she wanted them all to pay for the DJ! That’s over $2,000 split between 8 people. For my friend and her husband (a groomsmen) that would be $500.

Some people have no sense of what is appropriate or acceptable behavior. 

Post # 14
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2186 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

wow. just … wow. what a total F*tard.

seriously call her out on that one. dont let her get away with it. and i would refuse to pay for anything over the price it takes for you ALONE to get your stuff done, IF THAT.

personally i would have quit a while ago but thats me….

Post # 15
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434 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

WTF? That’s just retarded. I’d tell her you called and asked and see what she says.

Post # 16
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98 posts
Worker bee

I’m guessing that the Maid/Matron of Honor doesn’t know she’s splitting the cost.   I would tell by just texting/emailing/calling her and saying that you called the salon and then ask her if she knew what the cost quoted by the bride included.  She may be as upset as you. Then, I would confront the bride and tell her that you’re willing to pay for the price of your own hair and makeup but not for hers or the rental fee. 

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