- 8 years ago
- Wedding: July 2010
I sent my invitations two weeks ago and it had been a lot of anxiety because i had only received 6 rsvp back. My Maid/Matron of Honor and Bridesmaid or Best Man are married and they received theirs last week but because they have a po box they didn’t went to get the invitation until today. i was feeling angry because i made my invitations and i wanted their opinion. I also send an invitation for my Maid/Matron of Honor parents because they had always treat it us very nice. and i felt it was the right thing to do. I get a call from the best men and Maid/Matron of Honor and they said they like the invitations. Then i asked if her parents received the invitation and the tone change. She asked my if i was inviting her brothers too. i was a little bit surprise. her younger brother will do our music, not as a favor, as his job. this is what he do for living. so i didnt felt i need it to send an invitation because he is the dj!!! the other brother dont talk to us and we only cross words on her wedding and when their baby was born.
then she say that her mother was weird out because the invitations were black and white. her mother is very traditional.
now i feel like i made a mistake. i tried to do something nice and this is what i got. my wedding is very non traditional and if her parents go i dont want to have people on my wedding angry or looking weird. i love my moh and the best man. they are like our family. i dont blame them or be angry at them. im upset for the situation. maybe this is the first sign of bridezilla in me or hormones. I dont know i just need to vent!
btw: i was really nice on the phone.