(Closed) I’m auditioning for Jeopoardy…or throwing a bridal shower…

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

I would change the date of the shower and edit the invitations

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

change the dates

Post # 5
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

If this was her wedding, then it would be different, but this is just a shower. AND, since the invites havn’t went out yet, it is totally feasible to change the date.

Explain to your friend that you still want to host the shower and immediately offer suggested dates. If I were her, I would be grateful that you were throwing me a shower in the first place & have no problem that the date be moved. It’s win-win b/c you both get what you want!   

Post # 6
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Sugar bee

Jeopardy! 

Honestly, a shower just isn’t that important.  I would ask if anyone else can help you out, and host in your place, or pick another date. 

Anyone that would tell you to miss a once in a life time, event you’ve tried to do for 4 years, that you have no control over the date on, isn’t a true friend in my opinion.

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

OMG you HAVE to try out for Jeopardy. that is so cool, btw, congrats!!

maybe you can just push it one day, to Sunday? same weekend?

good luck!!

Post # 8
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2016

Jepordy!!!!!

Post # 9
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

ahhh most definitely Jep! good luck 🙂 

Post # 10
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

This makes me the odd man out here but nevertheless…The rule of thumb that I was taught by my Mom is that you honor the commitment you have already made. Chances are this girlfriend is going to have way more impact on your life than Jeopardy.

I would,write the contestant coordinator and explain that you are hosting a bridal showwer and ask for a different date. You have already been accepted! It’s just a matter of getting a tryout scheduled. It’ll make a great story for you to tell when Alex interviews you when you are on the show.

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