(Closed) I’m back and confused (long)

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
14495 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

I am going to come at this like he was my FH, because that is what I am reading into your post.

I think his manhood was offended.  A man is supposed to be able to take care of everything (including you) and give his SO her dreams, including a wedding.  I have said some things similarly to what you said and the FH told me exactly why what I was saying was hurting him.

I think the two of you need to sit down and make a list of priorities and just start knocking them out one by one.  Talk to him as you are a partnership, the two of you against the world.

But for safety sake, I would keep different savings accounts, you can always add them together later down the road when there is a guarantee of a ring.

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