Post # 1
Hello girls I am in need of some support right now those who dont know my story you can read here
But those of you who dont want to read it all I will post the main points…
- About 8 months ago I found out I was 8 weeks pregnant with twins
- Fi and I didnt know if we wanted to keep the babies or terminate
- We finally choose we wanted to keep them
- The next morning I woke up with spooting/Light bleeding and cramping
- Went to the hospital and found out I was miscarrying
I have been doing ok or atleast I thought I was…
I found out that my friends little sister is having twins. She is 19 and she has made it past her first trimester and gets to find out the sex of the babies at her next appointment.
I want to be excited for her (Her and my little sister are VERY close and she actually lived with us for short time) but I am having too hard of a time doing that. I am actually mad at her for still having her babies when mine didnt make it.
It is just not fair. I am sitting her and it is 1:21 I need to be up in less than 5 hours and I cant sleep because I can’t stop crying.
I need support and any tips on how to handle this I feel like I was punched in the stomach everytime I think about it.
Post # 3
Oh goodness. I am so sorry that you are feeling this way. It’s understandable that it’s hard for you to feel happy and excited for your friend’s sister when it reminds you of something so difficult.
As far as tips on how to handle this, I’m not really sure. Maybe for now doing some kind of meditation or relaxation exercises? Do you live with your fiance? Maybe you can talk to him?
Post # 4
I can’t offer any advice just want to show my support and give you a hug. It’s understandable to feel the way you do.
Post # 5
@thesweetroad: & @ladyartichoke: Thank you for your comments And yes i have been talking to Fi he has been letting me cry on his shoulder all night and while he means well he just really cant find the words to help tonight.
Post # 6
I think it’d be normal for you to feel that way, and I’m so sorry for your loss ::hugs:: you’ll get through this!
Post # 7
I’m so sorry for your loss!
Post # 8
This is such a tough situation, and one that lots of us bees can relate to.get have had a really tough time with baby and BFP eny after our miscarriage. While nothing that anyone says can “make it better”, is important to let your Darling Husband try to comfort you. Sometimes they dont know what to say, so just tell him what you need! Just this week I had a mini break-down and told Darling Husband that I just needed him to tell me that this would happen for us again. It helped:)
Sending you lots of hugs, and hoping you start feeling better soon:)
Post # 10
I am so sorry ..i know how tough it is (not entering details, too painful) and it may be like this everytime you see a pg woman..for awhile..have you looked for some kind of support? Do you know PASS?
Sending understanding, hugs, a shoulder to cry on, fragrant hot tea and positive vibes
Post # 11
**Hugs** sorry to hear this. I can only imagine what you’re going through. Try to stay strong though!
Post # 12
As others have said it’s very normal for you to feel this way hugs
Post # 13
@Rivendeler: No I dont know what pass is? I am guessing it is some sort of support group thing right?
But thank you girls for all the words of support I am just trying to take things one day at a time right now and that is working at the moment…