(Closed) I’m back :o)

posted 10 years ago in Weddingbee
Post # 31
18628 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

OMG CREBRE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I’m so sorry to hear about your dad though, I hope it all is okay.

Post # 32
6593 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

CREBRE!!!!!! Hey Girl – we missed you sooo much around here!

Sorry to hear about your dad – my thoughts are with you and your family!

Glad you are back!!!!!!

P.S. I vote for March 5th for your wedding… it’s my birthday 😉

Post # 33
2408 posts
Buzzing bee

you must have known we were all talking about how much we missed you and hoped you’d come back! glad to see you again. so sorry to hear about your dad but hopefully he’ll beat this round too Smile

Post # 34
541 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

Like I told you, you were definitely missed. Sooo glad you’re back. Praying for your family.

Post # 36
1756 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I’m glad you’re back, but I am so sorry to hear about your dad. Have you talked to anyone at a hospice facility or nursing home, to ask about the steps to getting an at-home nurse? When might be exactly what your dad needs.

And not to detract from your dad’s situation, but what online course are you taking? It sounds really interesting.

(If you need to talk, my mom died of pancreatic cancer a few years back. It’s a brutal thing to go through, on both the patient and caregiver sides.)

Post # 38
7081 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2009

Welcome back!  I can’t tell you the number of threads in which you were mentioned and missed!  I’ll be sending good thoughts to your family!

Post # 39
4479 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: March 2010 - Calamigos Ranch

Was wondering where you’d been! Welcome back!

Post # 40
968 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

Oh no, I am so sorry for what your dad is going through. I don’t know what advice to give about hospice or nurses. 🙁 I hope your father suffers very little and is surrounded by love.

Post # 41
1892 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Welcome back!! Everyone missed you around here. I’m sorry to hear about your dad

Post # 42
2395 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

Welcome back Crebre!!  I’m terribly sorry to hear about your dad.  Sending good thoughts your way.

Post # 44
3709 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

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@crebre80: I lost my aunt to cancer a couple of years ago and my grandmother this year. In the case of my aunt (who was literally our next door neighbor), she REFUSED to stay in the hospital once it was determined that her cancer was terminal. We worked with her Dr in order to make arrangements for a hospice nurse to come and visit her at my parents house (where she moved after she was released from the hospital). What we had to do was use the information from her Dr in order to file for disability from her job, and with the social security administration. Surprisingly enough, the process went really smoothly. Her Dr. put us in contact with the hospice arm of her hospital and that’s where we made arrangements for her nurse. The hospice nurse was invaluable b/c she not only helped make sure my aunt was comfortable and not in any pain, she helped US understand the process and gave us ways to help my aunt enjoy the time she had left. The hospice nurse also worked with us to make arrangements for what would happen during my aunt’s final hours.

I would HIGHLY recommend speaking with your father’s Dr and getting information about hospice.

As for the wedding….I think your father would be THRILLED just to see you be married. Five course dinner, or cake and champagne…he wouldn’t care.

Post # 45
755 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2016

@crebre80: I wasn’t posting on the boards much before you left, but I always loved your posts and your lovely brunch wedding ideas! I’m so sorry about your dad, and I’ll keep you and your family in my prayers. Welcome back!

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