- 5 years ago
- Wedding: July 2016
I’m so sorry you’re going through this. You sound so mature, far more mature than I was when I was 21.
I agree with many PP’s, you need to end it. This relationship is unhealthy. You should have a plan of how to break it off with him. Is there someone who could wait outside in a car while you do it? You need to have an escape plan.
I also wanted to mention that I was always really bad at breaking it off with guys if and when they cried. I stayed with an ex for 1.5 yr after I wanted to end it because he would be so sad when I tried to leave. So be prepared for the worst reaction possible, and stick to your guns. Don’t give him a second chance or make any promises or say anything other than it needs to end now. It’s even harder to end it the second and third times.
Best of luck. Hope it goes over well. And good for you for working so hard on school and your job! You have a bright and happy future ahead of you.