(Closed) I’m being selfish, but I’m mad!

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
Hostess
18643 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

I’m so sorry!  That’s sort of mean of him to ditch you to play catch when it didn’t seem like he had plans before then.

Post # 4
Member
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

i’m sorry. 🙁 i’d be upset too – but hey once you have that ring and are wearing it, i’m sure you’ll forget all about today.

Post # 5
Member
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Sugar bee

I’m sorry.  I hope he realizes where you’re coming from.  You should just tell him to give you the money and you’ll go get it yourself.  Sigh.

Post # 7
Member
2641 posts
Sugar bee

If it makes you feel better, my husband bought his own band, and I bought my own.  It was just easier since we were in a LDR. 

Can you go today?

Post # 8
Member
168 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

Wait…am I reading this right…he is not going to get your ring to go play football with guys? Like after embrassing you in front of them? Omg if so I’d be beyond mad…like breakup mad , maybe I’m reading it all wrong, hopefully I am.

Post # 9
Member
11325 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2011

I would be pissed. It isn’t just about the ring… its about him blowing you off. 

Post # 10
Member
2867 posts
Sugar bee

Are you sure he went to play catch?  He could of bought the ring and is planning a surprise…

Post # 11
Member
158 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

Honestly, I would be upset too. I don’t think you are being selfish for being mad, he totally blew you off even though you were going to get this ring as well as very excited to get it. I think perhaps if you put it in a way that he would understand why you were upset.

Post # 12
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2017

On the surface, this is very FRUSTRATING!  However, maybe he was using this to go buy the ring as a suprise?  Maybe his friend talked him into it?  Or maybe he wanted to use them to throw you off?

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