(Closed) I’m done

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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3219 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

Everyone feels like that at on point. Just take a few weeks off and you’ll feel better!

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

YOU ARE NOT the only one. I am right there with you! Let’s just muscle through and try to enjoy ourselves!

 

Are you planning a honeymoon for after?

Post # 6
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1509 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Yep. Let’s see, you have about 3 months left… that is the exact point where I threw up my hands in frustration as well!  This type of attitude pretty much prevailed for me until the wedding day, but it allowed me to enjoy the day SO MUCH!  Honestly, I think all of the work just made me forget about what everyone else thinks and I enjoyed the day for myself – it became only about me and my hubby on the wedding day.

Good luck lady!  These next 3 months will be a rollar coaster of emotions, but they will be so worth it!

Post # 7
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762 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

Awe just keep your chin up and push through it! I understand that you feel this way but just think…you’re getting married! πŸ™‚ In all honestly, no the little details should not/do not matter but unfortunatly we all go overboard too soon and have no way out. Just take a deep breathe and don’t worry about anything wedding related for a few days (I know, easier said than done) then start fresh when you feel ready! Remember, just breath, it will all work out! πŸ™‚

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

@MsReese: I feel you – I’m done too. And most of my extended family has RSVP’d no, so it’s really starting to feel like a Fiance family reunion, where me and my parents are guests. Hopefully my friends come through.

Post # 9
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

It ebbs and flows!  I felt very similarly to you a few months ago.  I forgot about wedding stuff for a few weeks.. then was happy to get back into it.  Last week, again, so wanted it to be overwith!  Now I’m excited again…  You just need to keep venting to fellow brides…  I think we’re the only ones who can understand!  Ha!

Post # 10
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

I went through it as well! I was getting so angry and frustrated but when it came it all worked out. Day of everyone pulled together. It’s a pain especially because no one will care as much as you do about this wedding..

Try to keep it together… you will be married soon!!

Post # 11
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1778 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

Take a break and adopt this saying “It doesn’t have to be perfect, it just has to be fun.”  And then focus on a fun part for a while!

Post # 12
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532 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

Girl, I am right there with you. I am sick of the wedding, and just want to be married and on my honeymoon right now.

Post # 13
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708 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

I have just announced to everyone that I no longer have a sense of humor about this wedding. I tell them that I am working full time, planning a wedding for over 200 people in New York City by myself and planning the rehersal dinner by myself. If they don’t have something helpful or positive to say, I do not want to hear it. It really is amazing how nobody seems to understand how much work, planning logistics and emotion (not to mention money) goes into all of this.

I guess basically what I am trying to say is – I FEEL YOU

On the bright side, when you put that dress on and walk down the aisle, I am pretty sure you will forget all about this stuff.

Post # 14
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275 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

I feel you too.  I’m only a month into my engagement/wedding planning, and I’ve thrown my hands up and literaly said “I quit!” multiple times!  It is frustrating, but also exciting.  Time will fly and it will all be over soon, and you will be sitting next to your hunny on your honeymoon in no time!  Hold in there!  *hugs*

Post # 15
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I have never met a bride that didn’t reach this point.  I got there!  It came and went.  Toward the end (the last week really) I just said F it all.  Everything I could do was done, whatever happened- happened!  It was a really calming experience.  It also allowed me to enjoy that time, as opposed to needing bail money because I swear I was on the verge of freaking the freak out on people.  There are so many things you just can’t control, no matter how much you’ve prepared, no matter how organized you are.  So its best to just throw up your hands and let things be. 

Post # 16
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Yes, I feel like it comes in waves.

Take a week or two off from all things wedding. Have a glass of wine. Take a bubble bath. Just take some time to live your non-wedding planning life.

It will all be worth it in the end, but it’s not worth losing your mind over!

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