(Closed) I'm driving myself mad…

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2016

No advice on how to not let it drive you insane, because that would make me crazy too! Lol.. I can’t help but wonder what he needs to pack without you seeing?? Seems like a good sign to me! Maybe he’s told you he wouldn’t be asking for awhile, so that you’re not expecting it?

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

I wish I knew how to stop thinking about things!! I agree with PP, it seems odd he would have something to pack that he didn’t want you to see. And I’m leaning towards he was trying to throw you off so he told you he wasn’t asking for awhile. Either way, it sounds like you will be having an amazing time on your trip because he’s got a surprise planned for you! Even if it isn’t a ring he is sweet enough to want to plan a surprise for you and make sure you have a great trip! I knoe it’s easier said then done, but try to sit back and just enjoy your trip! Though I’ve got my fingers crossed for you!

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

@TopazTurtle:  Hmm tiny is good!! It seems like he’s always been honest with you and he wouldn’t be the type to lead you on that he has a ring when he doesn’t Have one. I really hope that he has a ring! But whatever he has he is very clearly excited about and can’t wait to give it to you! No matter what, you will have a memorable trip, can’t wait to hear what he had tucked away for you!

Post # 8
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1144 posts
Bumble bee

Men are so confusing & frustrating sometimes! I hope you get something sparkly on your trip abroad!

 

Post # 10
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176 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2016

@TopazTurtle:  Ugh! What a let down!!

Why would he even mention that he’s packing something he didnt want you to see if it was a card…really??

I just dont think things like that are worth mentioning, although it’s sweet! I’d be disappointed too.

Sorry it didnt happen 🙁 But the good thing is, you know it will! The wait is hard though, I know. 

 

Post # 11
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Bumble bee

@TopazTurtle:  well you could tell him to be wary of the siglnals (verbal and otherwise he sends you). My SO did stuff like that allll the time. He never really stopped, he just agreed to propose =0p

Post # 12
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624 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

WHAT?! A Card?!! That is ridiculous!!! He shouldn’t have even mentioned it if he wasn’t sure about bringing it.  Especially when Valentine’s Day is still 13 days away, he couldn’t have thought of something to write by then?! Maybe he is throwing you off… If not, I agree with @subtlebee let him know about the signals he’s sending and if he intends to do them or not! Sorry it didn’t happen, I was rooting for you!

Post # 13
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: April 2016

That was pretty mean of him. And that kind of doesn’t make sense. Are you going to be in Rom for V-day? I’m sorry you’re disappointed. Of course, maybe he didn’t even realize about the signals he was sending. Don’t be embarassed, I would have suspected a proposal was coming too from what you described.

Post # 14
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1356 posts
Bumble bee

Aw that’s disappointing…! We’re here for you! 

And if you find a way to stop going crazy about receiving a ring… let us know. 😉

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