(Closed) I’m feeling a little upset with my friends.

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

you need to be honest with your friends.  Instead of asking this on a message board you need to say it to them.  Ask them why they didn’t ask you go go shopping with them instead of babysitting.

If they only use you for babysitting a you say, I’m sorry but you need to find new friends, these are not friends these are users, and you should be mad.  Don’t let people walk all over you.

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

These people are not your friends. You’re their free babysitter. You should end this quickly.

Post # 6
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

I’ve definitely heard it from other people as well once people ahve kids their whole world changes and that usually means that friends without kids are not part of their world anymore. Sad but true.

Def tell them that you’re too buisy to watch their kids and forget about them.  I know easier said than done, but if you told them how you feel and they didn’t care as it seems then they aren’t your friends, sorry.

Post # 8
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

I’ve moved around a lot and found friends over the internet. Meetup.com has been a godsend and I’ve found my current circle of friends who live nearby through it.  Even here if there are anly local boards people are into meeting up.  It’s hard to meet new people but not impossible so you’re not doomed to be friendless.

Post # 10
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

@SouthernGirl:

yeah, it really depends on where you live, it prob is easier in a bigger city.

I also know how you feel, I went to private school too most of my life and didn’t make any friends there and in public high school I had too many problems and pushed everyone away so I didn’t really have any friends until college.

Sorry hope your situation gets better.

Post # 11
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Busy Beekeeper

I would like to believe friends who truly care will not exclude those without  kids form their lives. Sure I agree there is a huge shift in lifestyle but thats no excuse for a lack of common courtesy.

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